I was thinking of getting a mail order bride, should I?

Question

I just connect with non American women better it seems, they have all the qualities that men want in a wife Loyal, beeautiful, hardworking, aprreciative, caring, ect. Plus many of them are trying to leave ecomically depressed countries and giving them a new life in America will be much better for them. And no I don't want a submissive women or a sex slave, I have always treated women great in all my relationships and share all the responsibilities with her. I'm 6'2, 205, dark hair and green eyes. I'm also in very good shape, I work out four times a week, I'm college educated, I have a very good job, and I don't cheat at all. A women from Asia or South America would be ideal for me I think. So wha does everyone think.

Answer 1

A LOT of marriages don't work out because people were putting on a "front" and pretending to be something they weren't and, once married, they revert to being their usual selves. Whether it's deliberate or unconconsious, we all want to be liked. It's human nature.

Now add to that a degree of economic desperation and you've got a recipe for a failed marriage. How many of these "foreign brides" do you actually think stay married once they have their permanent residency status?

But, yeah, sure, go ahead. Bring more women into the United States. We can always use more smart, pretty and resourceful gals. I'm just betting the marriage doesn't last any longer than necessary for her to assure she won't be shipped back.

Answer 2

i see a lot of single white men in SanJose California that have taken apon the purchasing of a mail order bride. some women will go to a desperate extreme to have a better life. it's just amazing how oblivious these men are to what's really going on outside of the box. you seek some sort of fullfilment and if thats the way you seek it then there's a woman seeking a desperate need in another way. hard work ( your maid ), loyal ( she's in a new country, shes lost). beautiful, appreciative, caring; im glad they have photo albums of starving women with there loveing qualities posted underneath a picture of themselves of how they've been abused into getting to that position of selling themselves to some man. How convenient that you can pick from whomever you want;can't judge a book by it's cover. by a picture you can't tell if she's a lesbian who may never love you! Anyhow once she becomes a citizen if she is a HARDWORKER then what will she need you for? however attractive you may be your still a complete stranger who bought a person who sold themself! i think your nuts!

Answer 3

Hey,, look,, despite what all these women and men think in here, I have known several men, that have gotten to know, filipino women and have married and have a productive life together....
I agree, most of these American beauties are lazy, spoiled , and treat their husbands like dirt!!!! I have been there, and Never again will i marry one .....

You do what you think you want, and dont listen to any one ,, dont just go over and marry one,, take some time to know her first.... but i think you will be pleased....

good luck

Answer 4

I say go for it. Not only are you meeting who could possibly be your life partner, but you are also giving her a chance to have a better life. You offer her the chance to know the true passions of romance.

Asian and South American, eh? Great choice. You guys will have great looking kids.

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The United States Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) reports that "...marriages arranged through these services would appear to have a lower divorce rate than the nation as a whole, fully 80 percent of these marriages having lasted over the years for which reports are available." [1] The USCIS also reports that "... mail-order bride and e-mail correspondence services result in 4,000 to 6,000 marriages between U.S. men and foreign brides each year."

Answer 5

I guess that you didn't know that their plan is to marry and become a citizen and then move on with their new life. You should do some research on this subject. It is quite the commonality of these so called "marriages". Please don't get suckered in to this.

I know someone that did this and is now getting a divorce at his wifes demand. Very sad.

Answer 6

You know, there's a company for men like you. It's called Adam and Eve. They have a variety of products designed to help men like you with your little problem. Last time I got the catalog, I bought a vibrator, but they have real life imitations of porn star's bodies, and even a blow up doll.

Get a life. Don't you know that some people consider what you want to do human trafficking?

Answer 7

Oh, yeah, we are supposed to believe that you are perfect and American women just are so disloyal, ugly, lazy, non-appreciative, non-caring, etc., that you can't stand any of them.
Yet you don't want a submissive sex slave. Better do a closer self-evaluation. What happens to the woman when she doesn't measure up to your "standards"? I am sure that it won't be because of any fault on your part. I think you are a lier and a loser and hopefully the post office will lose your bride to be (for her sake.)

Answer 8

Brazilian.

Brazilian women are the best looking women in the world.

But purchasing a wife seems a little unethical.

Answer 9

i just hope that you find your "true love" through it. most asian women are educated too especially filipinas. they are loyal and loving wife as long as you treat them well. it worked on some people but not necessarily worked for everyone. trust your instincts and on what you are looking for. good luck on your quest!!

Answer 10

Marrying a stranger sounds stupid to me, but it has to be better than some of the people my friends have decided to spend their lives with.