I found a phone # on my husband cell phone bill?

Question

This # appears on his bill about 20 times, I dialed the # and a girl answers, How do I find out who this # belongs to? any easy way of doing this without making anyone suspicious?

I forgot to mention that this # is a cell # so a reserve look up is impossible

Answer 1

Why worry about making anyone suspicious..
Call the girl and tell her who you are and ask her
why your husband is calling her...
Ask your husband who she is ( after you have talked to her )...

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Well, if you have not blocked your phone number she probably knows that you are calling her. You could call from a pay phone booth and pretend to be a flower delivery person making a drop off and you were calling to see if "Jane Doe" is going to be home. She might give you her name. The other thing you could do is to snoop through his cell phone and see who she is. He is bound to have given you hints as to who this girl might be at some point in your conversation. Does he talk about some woman he works with a lot, someone at the gym, a female friend, etc? If you think he has probably dropped her name before. Check in his wallet to see if there is an old phone number or address. Men are sloopy and forget to get rid of junk even when they are being dogs.

Answer 4

Best thing to do is simply confront your husband on the issue, but do so neutrally and respectfully. Let me relate a story that happened with my wife and I, and it'll demonstrate how even the nastiest things can have innocent reasons.

My wife checked the Internet Explorer history once and saw a whole list of websites. Sites like "cheatingspouses" or "extramaritalaffiars" or "adultfriendfinder", etc. Basically it was a whole slew of sites devoted to finding someone to cheat on your spouse with--like bigotry dating services. You can imagine what THAT looked like! Well the reason I was looking there is because sometimes you see people you recognize, and then it becomes funny because I'm kind of sadistic like that. Was I looking at the sites? Yes. But not as a potential customer--as a heckler.

This phone number thing might be the same kind of deal. Although 20 times does seem rather excessive, there are a number of platonic reasons for it. Start by asking him, but be intelligent--check your credit and debit card statements and look for a calling card purchase after you talk to him. If he's doing something illegitimate, he'll start calling her using a calling card to mask the number.

Answer 5

You can try the reverse phone lookup online (google reverse phone directory, there are lots of choices), but chances are it won't work. By calling and saying "who is this?", you will arouse suspicion. I know I get defensive is someone asks me that! You can call the phone company, tell them this # appears repeatedly on your bill and you think it's a mistake. They may be able to tell you who it is. Or wait until the next time your husband is not around, and you're not quite sure where he is. Call the # and ask for him. Say it's important. Even if he's not there, he'll know you know that number. If it's innocent, he'll ask why you called so-and-so looking for him. If he says nothing, you've hit your target. Wait a week and ask. He'll feel guilty and probably spill, knowing that you know.

Answer 6

For one thing, why in the world would you try not to be suspicious? Your husband has this person's phone number whom he dials numerous times a day. You have every right to be suspicious. I have been in the same situation. Lucky for me, my ex didn't choose the brightest person and she tripped up when I asked her how she knew him. I would call her back and introduce myself. She may not even have a clue about you. There is never anything good that comes out of finding and anonymous phone number in your husband's cell phone. Good luck and GOD bless.

Answer 7

Ummmmm why are you looking at his phone bill? Why can't you ask him? Is there already a reason not to trust him and a reason to snoop? If not and you share the bill and he knew you would see it he is either stupid or doesn't care or nothing is going on so either way ASK HIM. You are married and he is suppose to answer questions that bother you. Just tell him that you saw it and you are sorry that it bothers you but it does and you need to find out who it is.
You will know by his answer if he is or isn't involved with another....just be ready for an answer you may not like.

Answer 8

There are reverse phone directories that will give you her name as long as it isn't an unlisted number. You could also ask him who the number belongs to. You'll probably have better luck if you don't jump all over him about it and just casually ask him. Don't tell him you called the number and heard a woman answer. That will make him defensive.

Answer 9

There are companies that you can hire to trace a cell number. If it's a listed number, you can do a reverse directory search for it.

Put a voice activated recorder in his car. If he's cheating, that's very likely to be a place he'd call her from.

Answer 10

Have a friend call for you and ask for someone else then say "who is this?" She may answer. Also go to the white pages web page and do a reverse trace. Type the phone number in and the name may come back to you. It only works sometimes though.

Answer 11

There are two ways of handling this. The easiest way is to call her and ask who this is, after she responds, you can say you have the wrong phone number. If she is calling from a registered phone number, you can do a reverse phone look up online. I have used this website http://www.anywho.com/