I come from a small town, and it seems like the majority of the people I went to school with are married and/or have children. I'm 23, almost 24. I'm still in college because I had a few setbacks, but am set to graduate in May. I have been w/my current bf for almost 4 years now and he's also set to graduate in May. He's almost 28. Is it not normal that we're not married and having kids yet? I am ready to get married or at least engaged, but not have kids. Is 20-24 the normal marriage/kid having time?
2006-11-28 04:09:58 · 8 answers · asked by two_kee_kees 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"yes, it is called intelligent!" does not make any sense. I'm not sure what you're point is.
2006-11-28 04:14:37 · update #1
I meant "your point" not "you're"... sorry
2006-11-28 04:15:17 · update #2
I see no need for name calling.
2006-11-28 04:36:58 · update #3
Nope, if it's not what you want for YOU, don't get married or have children. Doing it because it's expected or normal is a terrible reason. Marriage or kids are huge commitments.
2006-11-28 04:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Shane 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I seen a couple people who I went to school with and they have kids/married ect....I'm jealous of them but I know that I'm not ready to be married or have kids.but get married and have kids when your good and ready.
2006-11-28 04:29:15 · answer #2 · answered by Nails 4 breakfast,tacks 4 snacks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you want to be married with kids, then do it. If not, then don't, however, considering you asking this kind of question just proves how still immature you are.
2006-11-28 04:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by venus11224 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have plenty of time still ,so enjoy life and go for your Goals now,I am 24 and a mother and as much as i love my children there are lots of goals i had that i have pushed back for now so i could raise my children ,So go with your heart,
2006-11-28 04:23:50 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can do anything you want at your own pace, if all of them were jumping off of bridges would you? Seriously, don't afraid to be different!
2006-11-28 04:14:47 · answer #5 · answered by #35|how misery loves me| 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T WORRY ABOUT KIDS NOW. GO FIND YOUR DREAM JOB, ENJOY YOUR PARTNER AND LATER IT WILL COME...
2006-11-28 04:14:39 · answer #6 · answered by Rainbow Brite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is called intelligent!!!!!
2006-11-28 04:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Idiot
2006-11-28 04:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lothario 1 · 1⤊ 6⤋