I need to make him want me again. How can I do that?
2006-11-28 06:16:46 · 7 answers · asked by Stacye S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this from a guys point of view on this, go buy some sexy nighties, if you have kids send them to grandma's or the babysitter. then before he comes home set the mood for him, such as turn the lights off light candles through out the house, have a romantic candle light dinner, then lead him to the tub and take a playful bubble bath together,you slip out while he is drying off, in to the bed room put on the nightie and (if he don't come in to the bedroom go get him and lead him there) when he enters the room start being seductive, and more playful, i guaranty this will restart that flame, in him for you. just try to do something like this every so often and it will keep the excitement there,
2006-11-28 06:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by redneckmp28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the question of the year. Try to think of what made him attracted to you in the first. Try to do things for him to make him happy and make a romatic dinner and dress sexy for him. Do the things you used to do when you first started seeing him. You also sometimes need to tell him what you want and need. He may be taking you for granted. Guys are blind to what women need sometimes. Make a night of love all night and set the scene with candles and snacks for the inbetween. It's hard to get it back once the spark is gone, but it can be done.
2006-11-28 06:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Casper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some romance games.
set the mood.
go out on the town, have dinner then go back home then light some candles around your bathroom. Take a bubblebath together . Then play the 4play game or other romantic games.
2006-11-28 06:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by rositha520 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something spontaneous! Sometimes the passion dies because one person begins to feel they are doing all the work. Most men don't mind when their woman takes the upper hand. Surprise your man - it doesn't have to be about sex always either. Just random acts of kindness and thoughtfulness go a long way towards keeping the mood consistently romantic. Jump his bones when he gets home from work - tell him all the things you love about him.
2006-11-28 07:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alrite do things he would never expect you to do.....like make a surprise dinner when he gets home......or something romantic with candles in the bed room and rose peddals all over the bed ......be creative a person in LOVE will never let that love get away ...... look in marriage the person that makes the man happy is the women if there was no women there would be NO MARRIAGE you guys are the most important thing .......
show him that the women he fell in love with is still there .....
sincerly.....Hitch
2006-11-28 06:30:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him what the problem is hopefully you have a open and honest relationship and communication is not a problem and if that doesnt work then go out to dinner ,candles quaint romantic restaurrant sexy clothes etc and make the bedroom up nice and romantic and buy some sexy lingrie and some nice wine have fun with it and good luck sincerely M
2006-11-28 06:27:43 · answer #6 · answered by Mysterious Michele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't he want you?
2006-11-28 09:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋