she is loving a person that boy is also loving her he is well settled in life he does not have any bad habits and he is in a good job. her parents also knew about that boy they also like him but they were different caste she thinks that the only obstacle according to her parents is caste .she had not spoken about her love with her parents . she had told that boy she will not marry him if her parents refuses him but she is telling that "if i did not marry him means i will not marry anyone in this world" tell me some valuable advices for my friend
2006-11-28 07:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i personally think that she should talk to her parents about it. if she's really "in love" with him, then she would want to tell her parents. that's also a way that she can find out if her parents actually will accept him. if she feels that strongly about him, then she'll do whatever she can to be with him. that's what i would do. that's the only way she'll know.
2006-11-28 07:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by Apple Pie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it looks its teen age love. Danger...tell ur friend to 1st concentrate on her carrier. See in south indian families its the problem because the customs they follow are different. At the young age as they dwell in attracts, every thing will be ignored. Once they come out from families, and no one supports them...they are on roads without proper education. The girl's life is still horrible, as many men try to exploit her. If she becomes pregnant and he leaves her..then what is her fate?
is there any secured life for them? who supports them in getting their marriage? what is the point to cheat parents, who have so far taken care? if she has other sisters also...it would be difficult for them to get married.
Tell her to 1st stand on her own then she can take proper decission.
2006-11-29 02:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes your friend can talk to her parents but prior to this she should get positive signal from you.Otherwise how she can take action.She should first consult you and you should talk to her and make it clear that both are now ready to take actions.So tell your friend that she should go with you.Its the best solution.
2006-11-28 15:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by Mehbooba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Must talk to parents.
She thinks, does not mean she is correct or parent may or may not make concessions.
2006-11-28 15:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is childish imagine
2006-11-28 19:09:40 · answer #5 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋