Ive had an affair with my GF of 11 years. The sex, is absolutely great .. she is wonderful .. My wife on the other hand, although comiong around in hte sex department, is inhibited. should I continue with this on going sex once twice or three times a week with the office nympho or not??
2006-11-28 07:20:46 · 19 answers · asked by Eamon35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ive asked the GF if she would be willing to let her husband have a GO with my wife ...then perhaps, we could get together to do a couples fling ...
2006-11-28 07:41:58 · update #1
get a divorce why does either woman put up with it
2006-11-28 07:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this - do you love your wife? If your answer is yes than drop the girl on the side and look to your wife for the rest of your life, and treat her like a queen. Sex is not everything in a marriage. Your wife already knows about your afair (women know) and has chosen to put up with you for now...in 20 years who will you be happy with? Your office girl will have moved on..and so will your wife. You made a commitment to your wife - either honor it or divorce, but right now you are hurting the woman you love more than you know
2006-11-28 15:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Alexis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ****** for asking, anyone in the right mind will tell you to stick to your wife. you made a commitment to her, like others have mentioned sex is not everything in a relationship. but you guys are horn dogs, and that all you think about. INSTEAD YOU SHOULD BE LOOKING @ YOUR WIVES QUALITIES. am sure you married her for a reason. don't hurt your wife that way, you wouldn't want to feel that way right? if your marriage is going no where that why divorce exists! better to let go of her than to hurt her j******. and how do you know your nympho won't leave for someone else? and your like a idiot risking your relationship?
2006-11-28 16:18:09 · answer #3 · answered by Fiesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, make up your mind who you want to be with. If your wife isn't satisfying you, then why are you with her? Have you tried talking to your wife to find out why she is inhibited in bed? Is it a religious reason or something that has been implanted in her head in regards to how a woman should act from a sexual point of view. If talking it out and marriage counseling don't work, don't drag it out and simply file for divorce. If you enoy your girlfriend more than your wife, then you should be with your girlfriend instead. A marriage needs to be fullfulling and whole, and if either person is unhappy, why continue to suffer?
The whole "until death do us part" is complete and utter bullcrap. Why must people sufffer if they don't get along and make one another miserable?
2006-11-28 15:30:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you looking for? People to say, oh yeah, go mess around on your wife? You've already done the damage, let your wife go, so that she can go find a real man.
2006-11-28 15:23:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...You should never cheat on your wife. When you married her you promised to try to keep her happy no matter what. How would she feel if she find out. But then again i am a christian and if it makes you happy then continue but you should think about your WIFE's feelings
2006-11-28 15:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, i think you should. i even talked my wife into a 3 some with my girlfriend. it was pretty cool and all, but now she wants me to lose the gf....even given that, i'd suggest trying to get them in the sack together with you. if the same happens to you, you can always find a new gf. that's my plan.
2006-11-28 15:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Its only going to ruin your marriage. You need to talk to your wife about what is bothering you. Maybe even go see a counselor.
2006-11-28 15:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreamer. You're probably still living in your Moms basement.
2006-11-28 15:23:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ADULTRY??? COME ON!!! Work on your relationship with your wife nobody else!!!!!!! U need a shrink!! Does she even know?
2006-11-28 15:23:20 · answer #10 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋