2006-11-28 07:36:38 · 10 answers · asked by Raven 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I should have said "leave his children",,,,I don't give a flying f.. about his lovelife. No one should put their lovelife before their minor children. They had a fairly OK marriage until this 3Xmarried whore came along. I think he is making a big mistake to not be there for his children every night in their home. His kids are so afraid at night without dad in the house.
2006-11-28 07:56:55 · update #1
He has 3 little girls. The other woman has already left two sets of children with their father. She is such a loser.
2006-11-28 07:59:38 · update #2
Sunflower, I don't know where you got your statistics but if they are old enough to remember their dad leaving, the stats I came across show a lot of problems for the girls and their adult relationships based on their dad leaving them.
2006-11-28 08:38:16 · update #3
Many become very promiscuous.
2006-11-28 08:39:55 · update #4
I think you owe it to him to at least say what you think about this.
Too many people keep quiet about these things and the cheaters interpret this silence for your approval.
"All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing." (Edmund Burke)
You may not change his mind, but you can speak yours, and perhaps other good men will join in.
2006-11-28 08:34:17 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this but step back.
Children of divorce thrive in time.
Just be their for the female ex to support her and her family during this difficult situation.
However, remember that you are not the "missing ex" and have a life of your own. There are many charities available to help support a women and family during this time.
Best of luck
2006-11-28 16:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Support your sister!!!!!!!!!! Not the brother in law . Help your sister with the children. Leave him out in the cold with the b that he left your sister for. Hopefully he will get what goes around comes around real soon.
2006-11-28 16:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, he's being stupid, and tell him how much his wife and kids love and need him, that a relationship with another woman wont work out, because the new woman will be mad about how much child support he has to pay.
2006-11-28 15:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey my wife left me and our 4 year old son for a loser. sometimes you just cant understand. step back, and let them taste reality. chances are they will suffer. such is life
2006-11-28 16:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by ali k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your sister...she's your blood and you should take care of her if her husband wants to leave her and the kids. Stand up for what you believe in!
2006-11-28 15:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't get involved. If he's not in love with his wife anymore, it's better for all involved if they can go their seperate ways now.
2006-11-28 15:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing you or anybody else can say if that's what he wants to do. You cant save their marriage and its not up to you to do so.
2006-11-28 15:41:20 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really can't say anything. because if he does stay he will only cheat on her again. so i would not get involved.
2006-11-28 15:40:28 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "cheaper to keeper' "
2006-11-28 15:40:02 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋