how to tackle ziddi children, and how to convence them?

Question

i dont want to blackmail children to do some work or other, then how to convence them to understand the problem or situtation to solve the things amicably

Answer 1

Spare The rod & Spoil The Child its a old saying which holds correct now also. In order to discipline the child you have to be strict make him to understand the importance of work you want them to do, its advatages and disadvantages if it is not done. Children are very intelligent and grabe your lesson if told in simplified manner.

Answer 2

Can't say I agree with you on that one :/ If a family wants to raise their child to be religious, then that's up to them. They SHOULD allow their child to think for themselves, and let them see + experience other ways of living... if they don't do this, then that's being closed-minded, ignorant, and over-protective... but it's not abuse. Teaching children to be hateful towards non-believers, different religions, LGBT people, or anybody for that matter, is wrong. However, it's not child abuse. People need to be more open-minded - if they want to raise their children to be religious then so be it. It's none of our business. But it would be best if they let their children make their own choices about beliefs, and didn't teach them anything offensive.

Answer 3

If you want to get some work done from children, the best thing would be to participate with them in the same work and the child will automatically learn and do things and also grow with this concept in his mind.

Answer 4

Be..open...hug and love them a lot..and be honest with them...remember children have a best audio video system within themsef built in by mother nature and they are very sensetive to catch all things around them..if you are honest with them, they will understand...only thing matters is communicate...communicate and communicate openly...with them honestly.... have a nice day.

Answer 5

now to make children understand a problem you need to treat them like adults.sounds surprising?yes,you need to give them the same importance like you give to adults.tell them the exact reason as to why you want them to do something which they do not agree with,show them how will this would benefit them in return.discussing problems with children helps them feel important and responsible.so they love to cooperate.

my sister is one of the ziddiest child one has ever seen on earth.but everytime i have to convince her,i patiently discuss the problem with her without treating her like a child.she nods seriously and asks questions if she doesnt understand the issue.i explain her seriously.and it is she sometimes who comes up with a solution which i never thought of.this also strengthens our bond of trust.

Answer 6

u must explain problem in simple words and tell them that's the only way ... if still they behave same maner than you must note when nd why their behaviour changes ... nd then convence them as their moods ... not all children have same kind of behaviour nd same reason of rude behaviour ... so you must 1st know the reason ...

Answer 7

Allow all their needs with out any offence after few days they will loose the interest then you try to teach better and good things then definitely they will turn in to good things and behave like good boys.

Answer 8

first of all do not be strict with them. Just have patience with them and convince them with politeness and love and pamper with examples so that they can understand what is good and what is bad.

Answer 9

why would you wont to blackmail children an way you convince them to the solve problem some way easy

Answer 10

hey just treat them with love and clearly tell them that whatever they are gonna do will only harm them and let them think alone