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For example today :we were watching television and he got an erection I asked him what is going on and he said "nothing",and he wants to go to sleep.We have sex only once a week because he said that he needed to be relaxed,but when we want to have sex many times he cannot perform (doesn't get erection)I don't know what is going on with him,he doesn't want to tell me nothing.My concern is that when he gets all erections he is thinking of somebody else,because he isnot into sex with me anymore.He told me that sex is not important for him.Please help.THX!

2006-11-28 18:26:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

16 answers

It doesn't necessarily mean anything. On average most married people only have sex only one time a week (actually i think the yearly average makes it work out to slightly over once, those are the american stats). So the frequency is normal. Just because he has an erection doesn't mean that he has the energy to have sex. Especially if he's still keyed up from his day, the urge might not be there. Don't jump to conclusions, especially if he hasn't given you an actual reason to. It really is quite possible that he just isn't in the mood, which happens to plenty of people, men and women.

2006-11-28 18:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0 0

The possibility of his fitness is ruled out because you said he is getting full erection..

Under these circumstances there are some possibilities like (1) he is in love with someone else (2) he is having some sort of dissatisfaction from you -- like you may not have cooperated to fulfil some or his fantasies, that only you can know it (3) Or though this is rare it is possible that he may be suffering from some sort of psychological problems

If he is seeing someone else then either you will need to let some time pass and handle the situation tectfully to drive him back to you;

But if you think you have failed to satisfy him then you need to analyse your personal life or else you may also discuss it with him;

And for third reason you may like to consult some counsellor..

I wish that you will get rid of it soon... Wish you all the best...

2006-11-28 18:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Men can get an erection for many different reasons, ever heard of MORNING WOOD? also that thing just goes up and down all day!!! As for not wanting sex...well... that's a different story ... Does he have unaccounted for time or business trips < or Hunting trips with the boys where you don't know where he really is? It usually don't take much to talk a man into sex!!! Also ask yourself DO I NAG AND COMPLAIN A LOT? or HAVE I LET MYSELF GO (PHYSICALLY) those two things can also explain a lot... ( YOU WANTED AN HONEST ANSWER RIGHT ?)

2006-11-28 18:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Erections do not necessarily mean a need to have sex. The penis often erects to cleanse itself from impurities in its cavities and to maintain a regular blood flow. Simple human bodily function. Sex once or twice a week would be considered enough for a lot of married couples. If your man says that sex is not important for him it doesn't necessarily mean that he's getting it somewhere else, maybe it means that......sex is not important for him as much as it is for you. Good luck!

2006-11-29 02:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by guicho79 4 · 0 0

only because of the fact a guy gets an erection, does no longer recommend he straight away needs intercourse. according to probability he's only satisfied laying there with you. If he replaced into no longer attracted to you, then he does no longer get an erection. only nicely known the erection and if he needs intercourse, he assist you to appreciate.

2016-10-13 08:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by dickirson 4 · 0 0

Don't think the worst just yet. Talk to him about it,there may be something else wrong. Stress from the job or running the household may be getting to him. Try to find the root of the problem and help him work it out. GOOD luck!

2006-11-28 18:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0 0

are you sure you got yourself together hun? make yourself desirable for him do what you did to get him,clean your body up, buy some sexy lingerie, put on some nice smelling perfume. light some candles. don't be pushy or nag just give it a try it won't hurt. make sure the house is clean. buy some shower gels and body spray like exotic coconut at bath and body it works my fiance loves it. always keep yourself looking good for him and you. man likes tocome home to clean house woman looking nice dinner just try it and see how it goes if it doesn't work you know what it will work have faith good luck next time it pops up grab it with yo mouth :o)

2006-11-28 18:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by k2u 1 · 0 0

Do you Shower? Are your front teeth missing? Are you overweight? Any of these things would do if for me!
If not and you really do try to turn him on, I would say that he is gay, so for your own sake, keep your hands off that aids infected tool of his and get out of there as fast as you can!

2006-11-28 18:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jack Knauf 2 · 0 0

he might be having some physical problems maintaining an erection

2006-11-28 18:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0 0

You are correct..
Something strange seems to be going on..
Perhaps you might watch some porn with him over a few drinks..

2006-11-28 18:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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