I work at a company in which a lot of men who are married brag about cheating on their wives and talk about it like it is nothing and common place. This makes me kind of upset and I wonder do all men get off on cheating on their wife and talking about it openly. It really irritates me because I am engaged and my fiance is cheating. It feels like I am in the "Twilight Zone" and can't believe that these married men get off on cheating on their wife. These married men are not teenagers. They are in their late 20's and 30's and they just get a rise out of telling stories of their infidelity. Seems these so called men are heartless and have no care for their wives.
2006-11-28 13:58:37 · 13 answers · asked by James J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it is not my fiance...
2006-11-28 14:10:17 · update #1
I am a married man and have been for 14 years, and I have not cheated one time. If they are cheating they are not men, they are irresponsible kids that do not have a clue as to what life is really about. If your fiance is cheating then by all means do not make him your husband, you will be the one hurt. As far as all guys talking about what they may or may not do, I have found that if they are talking about it, it is not really happening. They are just wanting to make themselves look good to the other dogs that do the same. I would change to a good job with good people to be around.
2006-11-28 14:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by mtbbz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are only engaged and your fiance is cheating already why in hell would you marry her ?? Have you told her you know about it ?? If not tell her as you are walking out the door and don't go back !! Another thing not all men cheat ! ! Some of them just have real big imaginations to make up for their small penis's !! Some men never grow up and bragging about certain things is just a sign of their immaturity. Note l said some men, l do not want the mature, loving men to think l judge all men the same way. Besides there are also a lot of immature women in this world. Hope l have helped. Best of luck with your problem.
2006-11-28 22:25:23 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thank you for posting this James. Even if it's not for real, it's renewed my faith in honest men. And I'm crushed that you are hurt by your fiancee's cheating.
My man works with only men and the stories I hear about! I have to think that at least 50% is smack-talkin, some is made up, and a fraction may possibly perhaps be true. I think guys make this stuff up and are very convincing, just to beat their chests in front of other guys. Don't believe the hype.
And I'm so sorry about your fiancee - I hope all works out to your happiness.
2006-11-28 22:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good to see there are REAL men left in the world! Your fiance is very fortunate to have you and you can tell her from me that she needs to stop all of that before she loses a good man! As for those so called men, they are not worth a flip! It will be because of men like you that the next generation has someone to look up to.....a real hero in a world where the hero is in short supply! A man with morals! God bless you!
2006-11-28 22:11:29 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree mate...my hubbys ex-workplace was full of the same thing. It bred more cheaters at his work, so there was even more going on. I think these men are pathetic to do it, pathetic for listening and pathetic enough to think it's interesting....These wives need to be informed so they can return the favour and remember "whatever you can do, i can do better!!!"
They must have small penises under it all though, to have to brag.....LOL!! Never, ever kiss and tell!!!
2006-11-28 22:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by holdengal81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honest answer: some men are cheaters,others have a good fantasy telling others stories of how macho men they are.Not all married men are cheaters.There are good and bad men always everywhere.
2006-11-28 22:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are saying, but - did you ever think they may be making it up? Trying to act macho in front of the other guys? I bet that is it....
BTW - if your fiance is cheating...... why is it your fiance?
2006-11-28 22:03:26 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me I would be taping there conversations and then mysteriously deliver them to there wives.That will cook there goose.Also tell them there such big talkers to prove it. They sure don`t respect there wives,They are no better than swine
2006-11-28 22:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by xlhdrider 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to wonder if some of them just say that they are getting it on side just so they don't look like a wienie to the other men.
2006-11-28 22:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you don't look at them as role models, some people have better sense than they do. How proud their parents, wives and children must be of them, eh?
2006-11-28 22:02:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋