...i gave birth the 1st of this month. me and my ex bf broke up nine months ago...after we broke up, i found out i was pregnant...he didn't call or even offer support the whole time i was pregnant even if he knew i was pregnant. later i found out he got back with his ex and got married. when i gave birth, i felt that he has to know. i told my sis to visit him at work to let him know that he can visit my daughter...he hasn't called right away..what do u guys think?
2006-11-28 11:19:31 · 10 answers · asked by Irish C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I imagine his is angry, hurt and confused. His first thought was probably that it was a joke or lie, then he probably got angry for not being told sooner and then probably confused about what to do. His marriage means he has moved on and suddenly BAM someone throws this into his face. It has to be really hard for his wife as well. I am not surprised you didn't hear from him. He had a right to know but it should have been 9 months ago! You owe him a big apology and should be prepared for a battle(paternity test etc) if you want child support. Not that you don't deserve it but he deserved to know a long time ago. If you don't want anything from him then drop it and leave him alone. Good Luck with your decision and congratulations!
2006-11-28 11:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by buffybot67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is the ultimate loser. Hes trying to act like you never existed. His wife probably doesnt know about you and he wants to keep it that way and for you and your daughters sake, leave him alone. You two dont need a guy like that in your lifes. If by chance you put his name on the birth certificate, then sue him for child support as he is 1/2 responsible for this. The only thing with child support comes the legal right for visitation rights. Good luck
2006-11-28 11:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 16:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by shearin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any bloke with a d**k can have a baby, but it takes a real man to raise his children
forget about him raise your daughter and enjoy the time you will have with her, in the end it is him who will miss out on seeing is baby girl grow into a women
2006-11-28 11:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that he knows, leave him alone. He'll need time to understand what to do and how to tell his wife. Eventually, over time, if he's a real man, he'll step up to his responsibility. For now, enjoy your baby.
2006-11-28 11:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by bb4pb510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants nothing to do with you or your kid. He has moved on with his life. You could try to go for child support. But my guess is, he will deny the kid is his.
2006-11-28 11:40:01 · answer #6 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him take a paternaty test so he will know for sure it is his baby then make him pay child support. if he does not want to be in his childs life that is his loss. good luck
2006-11-28 11:35:33 · answer #7 · answered by just2onthemoon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he don't wat to have nothing to do with the child and especially now that he has a family of his own....which by the way is a selfish thing for him to do...it i was u apply for child support.....
2006-11-28 11:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by tutsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone can be a father. he is not a daddy. his loss!!! Enjoy your beautiful daughter!!!
2006-11-28 11:21:58 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-11-28 11:25:14 · answer #10 · answered by morganslilone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋