2006-11-28 12:59:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A little more information would be nice, I mean you say 6 wonderful years going on 7 and then you want a divorce? There must be a cause.
2006-11-28 13:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I dont understand how you could want a divorce after 6 wonderful years...I would be more understanding if you said that they were 6 horrible years.
I think instead of wanting a divorce...you should be counting your lucky stars for the 6 wonderful years that your husband gave you...especially, since some couples never even last 6 years together.
Remember that you don't know what you got...until it's gone!!
Don't be in such a hurry for a divorce unless you have a real reason to want one.
2006-11-28 21:47:25 · answer #2 · answered by angelbeliever114 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get a divorce after 6 wonderful years and going on 7 for? If it is so great why get a divorce? If you must, just tell him him you want a divorce.
2006-11-28 21:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to be honest with yourself even though
u are not honest with us, as you are contradic-
ting what u just wrote. Any one who is marr-
ied going on 7 wonderful years and then wants
to get a divorce is not telling what is really
going on. Evidentally the wonderful years was
for the part of ur husband and not you so that
is why u want the divorce., and if that is the
case the only response to ur question is
TELL HIM U WANT A DIVORCE.
2006-11-28 21:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You called the years you have been married 'wonderful'. How in the world can you use that in the same paragraph as the word 'divorce'? Either you are kidding around or you're the problem and he's probably better off without you.
2006-11-28 21:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by The Nana of Nana's 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you describe the 6 going on 7 years as "Wonderful" if you want a divorce?
Anyway, say "I want a divorce!".
2006-11-28 21:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its been so wonderful ,why do you want a divorce?
If he cheated on you, or abused you...GET OUT!!
But if you just want a divorce becuase your bored or things are too routine for you... something along those lines, I say talk to him, tell him how you feel. find the spark. Find whats missing, that makes you want to leave. Maybe talk to a therpist or reall close friend that you trust.
2006-11-28 21:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by JM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would deeply think about this really hard. I know your probably saying i have thought it through and through. But i to got a divorce. You wont find anything better out there. Unless he is beating you are treating you bad. I would hang on to him with all your might. Good men are very hard to find in this world. I should know ive been divorced for 10 years now.
2006-11-28 21:07:24 · answer #8 · answered by valerie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wonderful years and you want a divorce,how many of those wonderful years have you been cheating,if you want a divorce it must be another guy,cheaters don't get nowhere in life,what gos around comes around.
2006-11-28 21:04:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the reasons you want a divorce. Make your case clear and be clear and true to yourself.
Getting a divorce isn't an easy thing. Get ready for ugly moments and uglier situations.
2006-11-29 06:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by veroniki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋