We've been together nine years. Yes we had and still have our problems.I want to get married in the worst way but I also want us to be in our own home w/ stable jobs .At 1 time he has gotten mad at me for saying such.But now if I bring up the M word as we call it he gets all hot and bothered .Yes there has been some physical and emotional damage of course this is not the whole story.But what do you think.
2006-11-28 12:26:43 · 9 answers · asked by aliciay2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why bother at this point? Look....take a look gander at some of these losers here. There are tons of them that start out.."Married 6 months...together for 6 years....now we are getting a divorce". So what changed? Because of a fu*king piece of paper and a blood test?
It seems you can see real problems if you do. So do this....both of you go to an attorney...get wills drawn up and do so just as any married couple would. You have to protect the interests of one another and the kids. Consider yourself married at this point anyway.
2006-11-28 12:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself, what kind of marriage can you expect from a "man" who can't even say the word. The "M" word?! If he was worth marrying, he would have a long time ago. The physical and emotional damage also raises red flags here. What kind of guy gets mad about just having a discussion about marriage. After nine years and two kids he didn't think it would come up? I know you love him but you should trying loving yourself too. You have a right to bring up any subject you want without having to feel like your walking on eggshells. Respect yourself, protect your children, and find yourself a good man. Hope this helps. Good luck
2006-11-28 12:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by BrutalBaby 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you will desire to have him sever ties from his mom if she is desiring him to thieve from his activity. that's no longer good, she appears like redneck trash! She would desire to be the reason, why he's affected by all those issues. Any counselor could say sever ties with people who're no longer assisting you get extra effective! in case you're devoted to this guy, i could recommend praying for him, and not in accordance with him to fulfill your needs. you're looking after those young toddlers, and a few day he would get a clue. If he maintains to cheat on you, get out, of course he's no longer the "marrying" fabric. i could additionally magazine all the flaws that he has accomplished and maintains to do, that way you have checklist only in case you break up.
2016-10-13 07:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl best advice to you is to DO YOU. He ain't gone marry you. He too cool for marriage or he got somebody else in mind. I went through this one for 11 years and I just got 2 kids and a broken heart out the deal. He's now married to somebody else and I'm buy myself.
2006-11-28 12:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by leah d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may not be marriage material.
2006-11-28 12:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by bb4pb510 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the choice is totally up to you
good luck
2006-11-28 12:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wELL CHICK BABE............its like this..9 years and no popping the ?. You do the math........wish yas the bestest
2006-11-28 12:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by Dale D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has commitment problem. he likes having sex but not commiting.
2006-11-28 12:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by Grasshopper 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is he waiting for?
2006-11-28 12:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋