He is 25yrs and i am 43yrs I just found out that they will be tying the
not soon, but i don't want to stop. what should i do.
2006-11-28 12:50:11 · 21 answers · asked by SHARON 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well first of all way to go getting a younger guy! Pretty big feat!
But you really need to think about the fiance. He may have no respect for her, but maybe you should. You didn't mention love, so it shouldn't be that difficult to end. Think of all the other single 25 year olds out there yet to conquer!
2006-11-28 13:15:26 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol @ some of you.. She said shes having a SEXUAL relationship. She never said she wanted anything MORE than that. I think she made it very clear on what TYPE of relationship they have.
Her question is more geared toward should she stop or not. You cant tell her how would she feel because she might be in a relationship herself.
Bottomline is, since you just recently found out they are going to be getting married, you should question your moral side to decide whether to stop or not.
I always think you do dirt .. you get dirt .. So just watch what you do and who you do it with.
2006-11-28 13:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-10 18:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she finds out and whoops your @$$.
You are 43 yrs old, don't you have enough sense and experience not to mess with a guy who is with someone. Engaged or not, he is taken. The mature, honest, upright, WOMANLY thing to do would have been not to mess with him in the first place.
That's OK though because what goes around comes around. Someday you will find a man, fall in love, get engaged and some other woman will be screwing him behind your back.
Paybacks a b*i*t*c*h!!!!
2006-11-28 15:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he's not engaged to you huh. Break it off and just have the memory of getting shagged by someone 18 years younger than you.
Leave that boy alone!
2006-11-28 12:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think you should stop. I just feel sorry for the poor girl he's about to marry. I hope she realizes before it's too late what an *** he is...
Shame on him for being dishonest, and girl, i think you already know what you need to do.
2006-11-28 14:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by Haiti Cherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if you were engaged and your future husband was cheating on you? Is the sex so good you lost all your morals? He's a cheater. What's the attraction?
2006-11-28 13:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by fungirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you honestly have to come on yahoo to ask this..are you looking for people "players" to justify this so you wont feel as guilty...dont stop in fact find another guy who is engaged and take him on too...how would you feel if the guy you were engaged too was sleeping with someone else...go ahead if it feels good do it *shakes head*...God help us
2006-11-28 17:35:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just not right!!!! Obviously he is unfaithful.First off check for disease.Number two...What if the man you were engaged to did that to you?How would you feel. He is not your man. you should back off. I 'm not trying to be harsh just truthful.You wouldn't like it would you.How do you think she would feel if she found out?and he obviously doesn't care for you because he's marrying her.
2006-11-28 13:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think hes going to dump her for you... not likely OR Do you just get off at the idea of taking something that belongs to someone else ??? Where is your conscious???
2006-11-28 12:55:57 · answer #10 · answered by SE7EN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋