We barely talk and not because we are mad with each other. I suffer from depression and post traumatic syndrone and I need love and affection. please help
2006-11-28 12:54:37 · 8 answers · asked by charliarhette 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you really not know what to do? I mean deep down inside, you know what to do. You know the answer. Have you ever asked yourself why you are still with that guy? And if so, what conclusion did you come up with? The only person who can help you, is you. Good luck.
2006-11-28 13:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Roxie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seeking Help for your depression? And is he only with you for the money? Does he have his own job? The reason I'm
asking is because you said you have good income, sounds to
me, he's only in the relationship for the money. You need to get
the help professionally and as soon as you feel that you can stand on your two feet leave him. You need someone that will
will give you love and show you affection. You Don't need some-
one to stick around just for your money and that is what your husband is doing. Start looking for a Good Dr. that will give you
that proper treatment and not take advantage of you (money
wise) and start a new life. Girl Your young and there's a lot of
things out there for you to do and explore so start stepping.
Good Luck!! Cause There Is No Future With You And Your
Husband. Go find you someone that your compatible with.
And once you do go have fun.
2006-11-28 13:08:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. its usually the other way around im my opinion. In fact, thats my situation you describe in a way. Here the deal, it sounds more like he's leaching off of you if you support him and get nothing in return, relationship or not he has to contribute or get out.
I'm married to a woman i cant stand to be with because we have kids so maybe i shouldnt be answering this. If you dont have kids you can walk away... just talk about it with him. If you put him on the spot you'll get results. About your depression: get professional help, right away i know first hand how serious it can be. God bless.
2006-11-28 13:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dan-o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should find someone who is going to love you and be with you because they want to be with you as a person as a woman, not because of how much money you make, leave your husband, get some professional help and move on with your life, what you need is loving and caring man who is going to be there for you through thick and thin. Your husband doesn't deserve you, and you know it! So move on honey, and you will see your depression will go away with him, because you will meet someone who is going to accept you as you are!
2006-11-28 12:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know what to do. Who would stay with someone if they knew that they were being used sole for their income? I would assume that you have enough resources to relocate yourself to better surroundings. You don't need help, you need to leave.
2006-11-28 13:13:34 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well e- mail me let talk and become friend and see what happen
i been looking for a special some one for a long time know and im a very nice guy.
2006-11-28 12:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you tried talking to him? dont make assumtions because often times they are very misleading...(personal experience :o(...)
if things still arent working out the do what is best for you... you dont need anymore stress in your life! keep your head up and smile!!!
2006-11-28 13:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by Stargazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him!!!
2006-11-28 13:00:31 · answer #8 · answered by Breezey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋