Can u be inlove ,and not happy at the same time??

Question

thers no abuse, or fighting. few minor disagreements.we been married 8 years.

Answer 1

of course. whether or not you're in love has nothing to do with whether or not you're happy. it could be that you are bored with situation or if you are feeling unhappy for a long period of time it may be depression. as long as you are sure that you are in love with this person the unhappiness you are feeling may not even have anything to do with your significant other. if you feel it's the relationship and you want to make it work then i suggest going to counseling together.

Answer 2

My answer is yes.

I think it is wrong to say you are inlove with some one especially if you have been together so long. You should rather think of it like you are inlife with your partner and in life you have many ups and downs ins and outs.
and only part of your life together has to do with love but usually there is so much more than that going on. after a while things get better again and life goes on. don't worry tooo much there are moments in all relationships when you have to weather some storms in order to appreciate the good times.

Answer 3

Of course! You are just in a rut right now. Do some soul searching and find out why you are unhappy and fix it. Keep the lines of communication open. Good luck.

Answer 4

I think so I am in the same predicament. I love my sweetheart but their kid is annoying its some time depressing. I hate that they have a child but I am so in love with them so I take the frustation. Sometimes you make the best out of what you are given. It pays off if its worth believe me.

Answer 5

yes,maybe you are in a boring relationship are with your life, try doing somethings that will make you happy.

Answer 6

if you feel it's the relationship and you want to make it work then i suggest going to counseling together.

Answer 7

Of course!!