What does that mean? He said that we would always be friends no matter what. He was friends with his other ex right after they broke up. Whats his deal?
2006-11-28 00:11:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He is your friend. He has broken up with you. If you run into him, I'm sure he will be friendly, or if you introduce him to your new boyfriend, he'll be friendly towards you and your new partner.
As for him being friendly with his last ex, some people are different, he might of had a different type of relationship with her. Maybe they knew each other longer.
When you break up, you don't hang out and go to the movies together, you break up and move on, and wish each other the best.
2006-11-28 00:18:27 · answer #1 · answered by drkstr1973 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people say they are going to be friends after they break-up. I think it's a very mature thing to do. However, many people are not sincere when they say it. I'm not saying your guy isn't, perhaps he's met someone else and doesn't want to complicate matters by being in contact with you. In the meantime, I would put it on the backburner and go out and enjoy your life. If he wants to be in contact with you and remain friends, he'll eventually come around. But you have to consider that maybe he's just moved on. If so, then so should you..
2006-11-28 00:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by pussnboots333 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men do not want to be friends after a break up. It's an ego thing. He's probably better able to be friends with an earlier ex bec more time has passed or, more likely, he wasn't as into her as he was into you.
I would strongly advise that you let it and him go. You cannot force someone to be friends with you and with a 6 month silence unfortunately he's made it clear that he doesn't want to be friends with you. Let it go and move on.
2006-11-28 00:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Karen L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably in a great deal of pain from the break up. I am sure that when the two of you see each other he will be friendly. However, you must give it some time, and move on with your life.
And stop focusing on why he is not calling you, find something to do with your time. God bless****
2006-11-28 01:14:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sadly it sounds like he just does not care about you any further. Six months is a long time in between phone calls/voice contact.
2006-11-28 00:14:39 · answer #5 · answered by neutral 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's one of those people who think it's great for exes to be friends, but isn't equipped emotionally to pull off that sort of relationship. let him go, he may eventually come around.
2006-11-28 00:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jon M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time the "just friends" thing never works. this is a way of saying 'i dont really want to see you anymore' and they're not emotionally strong enough to handle that they dated you.
2006-11-28 00:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by alice_oh.nine_one 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it and move on with your life...obviously he has...he is an ex for a reason...good luck
2006-11-28 00:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke his heart
2006-11-28 00:13:09 · answer #9 · answered by John Scary 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋