it's almost 2 years since I know this guy..
we're so close together..
but about almost a year ago he got close to a new one..
now he decide to marry her than me..
I feel so break...
2006-11-28 00:36:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's no easy way to erase the pain because since he has rejected you things cannot be reversed. I understand you have feelings for him and clearly still love him. I have experienced the same feelings and I can tell you the pain stays with you for quite a while when you have really given yourself to someone. The best thing I can tell you to do is to get interested in other things that you enjoy. In addition take time out from seeing anyone and just take each day as it comes. Time is the great healer of love and lost loves. You will never get over someone whom you really loved but you will reach the point where you can live with it.
2006-11-28 00:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot really erase the pain. Everyone goes through rejection their own way and no matter what anyone says, your still going to have to work through this on your own. Friends can be there to help but it is all yours. You can very well say, that it I have waisted all this time and that part of my life is over, so now it is time for me to move on, get out there, have some fun with friends and family, someone else will come along and if his relationship doesn't work out and you are available then okay you decide. If you are not available, sorry his loss. but you didn't waist your life being sad about what if.... Make every day count. Good luck.
2006-11-28 08:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by cheoli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have trust on God plz love him first.
Then God will find you a better person than him.
The purpose of missing someone or something is to get better or the best the next time.
Surely God will help U if u Love God truly...
Ask Him everything will be granted.
Never feel this as a pain. U have a long way to go. U have much more to achieve.Love is not life. It is only a minor part of life.
U will get a better partner.
If he dont need u anymore, just leave him.
2006-11-28 08:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings cannot be erased as its not visibily written but only can be felt.
Pain can only heal and if you give it time to heal back as for not getting into depression and lowering your self esteem.
Just think it in a positive way that it was never meant to be this way with that guy.Let him go and world is filled with alot of beautiful things to happen your way,if you and YOU YOURSELF allow it to let go of his thoughts and the feelings for him(as its not that easy I know) as everyone in this world goes through a heart break and pain,You won't be the first and nor will you be the last,so go for a hoiday,socialize,pamper urself,treat urself ect and make your life more joyful and merry and this can happen only when U mentally prepare yourself to erase it yourself.
2006-11-28 08:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry, I wish there was a magic way to make pain disappear! but there isn't..time cures everything..it makes u forget. all u can do for now is to stay away from anything that reminds u of him, even love songs..occupy ur time and don't spend time alone..yoga and meditation can help alot also..good luck :)
2006-11-28 08:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by GucciRush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go down. you have to fight life the way it should be. all pains not forever. you will be able to pick up the pieces again. start all
over by going out with happy but peaceful people. it can be the start of another beautiful relationship.
2006-11-28 08:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BUMP HIM. HE WASNT THE 1 FOR YOU. MOVE ON YOU COULD DO SO MUCH BETTER.THERE ARE CUTER AND BETTER MEN IN THE WORLD AND YOU WILL MEET SOME ONE JUST FOR YOU. AND HE WILL LOVE YOU AND TREAT YOU GOOD. IT MIGHT NOT HAPPEN RIGHT AWAY SO DONT RUSH IT. A GOOD MAN WILL COME TO YOU.
2006-11-28 08:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by teeka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wish is would have know how to do it then i would have done it to myself.
this is life we get happiness and pains so when we have the strength to accept the happiness then why not pain? its a part of life baby.
2006-11-28 08:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so sorry to hear this i been there i know the pain you are going though.if you every like to talk i would like to be your friend you can e-mail any time.take care
2006-11-28 08:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by little_bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing that you need to have is ACCEPTANCE. You need to accept what has happened. Then let time heal your heart.
2006-11-28 08:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by ~Amor~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋