i have just found out that my partner would like to sleep with another man as we had a 3some with my ex boyfriend in 2004 and do you think i should stop with him as my ex felt my partners balls and my partner said he enjoyed it
2006-11-28 00:11:29 · 19 answers · asked by SAMANTHA H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. I am bisexual too and my wife loves the fact that I am. I am just a person and what goes on behind closed doors is no-one elses business.
2006-11-28 00:15:15 · answer #1 · answered by MrNiceGuy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
firstly being bi-curious (wondering what it would be like to be with someone of our own gender) and being bisexual (sleeping with our own gender) are two completely different things. something you may enjoy in fantasy may not work for you in reality.
secondly, it would seem your ex is more bi-curious than your partner now as it was him who made a beeline for your partners testicles. the fact that your partner enjoyed it is another matter. most men enjoy them being played with, but whats the betting your current guy would have run screaming if anything else had been tried?
i don't think the threesome was about the two guys in all honesty if all that happened between them was that, it was more for your enjoyment. if your partner wants to experiment with other males it has to be up to you if you continue the relationship. you have to weigh up a number of issues, such as how you would feel if he was unfaithful (you would undoubtedly be upset if he slept with another woman, why would you not if it was a man?), safe sex issues and so on. talk to him and try to work things out from there, he may not in reality fancy what he does in fantasy.
best wishes xx
2006-11-28 00:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by dreamcatcher 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it doesnt bother you that he is bi-sexual,,and it wouldnt bother you to have your partner being with another man then i wouldnt worry about it. If you have had a 3some before then you know the things that go down. Its noones buisness what you and he does in your own home. At least hes being honest and up front with you. He wasnt trying to hide the fact and do it behind your back. Join them and enjoy.
2006-11-28 00:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if the final thing is being and let the other/s (!) be just as much pulpitating, and you find it saves you from going incomplete unless with the no. 3 also playing as a good ball keeper- to ensure- all three come out winner in the end , then well so you can go about. adding many more playing ante or post ..together enjoying
2006-11-28 00:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by akshay s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that introducing other people into your relationship never works. Your partner will prob sleep with another bloke anyway as he has got the taste for it, even just to get it out of his system, but do you really want this? What about the risk factors involved? Can you be sure he will have safe sex?
2006-11-28 00:19:31 · answer #5 · answered by bluegizmored 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is entirely up to you, if you don't mind being with a man who is attracted to men and will eventually be having sex with men go for it. This is a very personal choice. I personally do not want to be with a man who wants the same things sexually as I do. Good luck and God bless****
2006-11-28 00:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you want to do, but know that your partner is never going to be satisfied with you completely. I would be more afraid of the diseases he may be spreading having sex with both sexes. Good luck.
2006-11-28 00:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once things like this go on in a relationship, things will never be the same.........i would not stop with him, sounds like he doesn't now which side of the fence he is on, and it would worry me, you need to do what ever you feel is best for you.cheers good luck and god bless
2006-12-01 10:53:12 · answer #8 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow that is a bit full on for my liking but whatever floats your boat!
Just be careful for STD reasons and that you don't get hurt
And before anyone says I am saying Bi sex and Gays have STDs I am not but if you sleep around and have threesomes etc and don't use protection you will get an STD whatever your sexuality
2006-11-28 00:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This would be cheating whether he goes with a guy or a girl. It's up to you whether you can live with that.
2006-11-29 18:27:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋