Well just a few nights ago he caought me on my myspace and does not like my ex being on myspace and told me if im cheating on just pack my things and leave him i told him im not cheathing on him but then he says if i want to leave, leave just to know well be on good terms as friends and may be something more but he said it is going to take long for him to think it thought im lost and he wants me to make the chose if the relationship should last i told him i love him and would like to stay with him but he said think it thought with my heart and i did i just don't know what to do anymore im lost and i want to cry cause i think he does not love me anymore what should i do
2006-11-28 02:01:34 · 7 answers · asked by Margarita J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its clear that you are very emotional about this guy but personally i do not see why he was so hung up over you being on myspace at the same time as your ex...surely if he trusted you fully he wouldnt feel the need to be so hasty in trying to make you leave and offering you what seems like an ultimatum. if you have given him no reason to feel threatened by your ex, this is not your fault - innocently playing on the computer does not justify such an over-the-top reaction from him. he obviously does still have feelings for you orelse he wouldnt have cared who you were online with, but what you have to think about is whether you want to be with HIM, if he can display such untrust towards you.
2006-11-28 02:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by claire l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks! Sorry you are going through that. I have been going through my-space drama with my boyfriend. I don't like him being "friends" with strange women and he is always getting hit on. He told me to stop being so insecure (although I have caught him trying to hook up w/a girl from on-line). My-space can be a fun way to communicate w/your friends and reconnect w/old ones but I feel it can be abused. If you are really happy with the guy you are with maybe you should consider giving up the my-space thing. It obviously makes him uncomfortable. If your heart is really into it then giving up my-space won't really matter. Good luck, I hope things work out for you.
2006-11-28 02:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating? Sounds like he wants out of the relationship, but on the other hand maybe he is insecure and thinks you want out.... You need to sit down and talk to him about it....
In the past I had a boyfriend who acted like that and I found out he was cheating on me...I hope this is not your case...
2006-11-28 02:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like he doesn't want to be with you anymore. I know that is bad to hear but you would be better off just trying to move on.
2006-11-28 02:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Julie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he is playing games or either he wants to call it off but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. So he is telling you to make the decision.
2006-11-28 02:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by HotMommi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wants you to do the dirty work and break up with him first. just do it. hes playing some sick mind games. get rid of him!
2006-11-28 02:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by »-(¯`v´¯)--»CHELSEA«- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart and let it lead you to your decision GOOD LUCK!!! <333 ;)
2006-11-28 02:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋