Marriage & Divorce - 14 November 2006

if your husband lied to you about going on a trip what would you do????

2006-11-14 02:13:25 · 33 answers · asked by buttercup 1

2006-11-14 02:10:47 · 26 answers · asked by Sarafriday 1

ladies i have heard women speak of the fact that they wish that thier husband had some on the side that way she can take the burden of sex off of her. and that confuse me and my ? is why is that and how many women feel the same way

2006-11-14 02:04:16 · 18 answers · asked by izzo808 1

2006-11-14 01:54:11 · 7 answers · asked by Thuba Mayibongwe N 1

We stopped talking and lost touch it's been 8 years since we've seen or talked to each other. He recently found me online and contacted me and wants to start our friendship up again. He knows that I am married and just wants to catch up on what we've missed out on with each other. I want to see him but my husband doesn't want me too. What should I do?

2006-11-14 01:53:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 01:45:55 · 12 answers · asked by amjo_me 1

Is it best to leave the high schooler with the bigger salary or take her with me when my income is less than adequate? The physical abuse is on and off, but there is daily emotional abuse. The physical abuse is not enough to leave marks due to their history in law enforcement, just enough to tear muscle and disable me so I can't leave and support myself. They also get their family members to emotionally abuse me and make me feel less than human whenever I see them. Even my own girls sometimes make fun of me to the point where it doesn't seem worth living anymore. Where can I go for help? I called a hotline after they choked me enough to the point I couldn't breathe one time, no help given. Tried the police and they seemed annoyed that I bothered them. The husband won't let me speak to a primary care physician about the depression because (their name would come up) so I am stuck with nowhere to turn at the moment. I just can't think of where to go for help without being shot by him

2006-11-14 01:45:45 · 21 answers · asked by C 2

2006-11-14 01:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by minta 1

I am in the process of deciding whether or not to leave relationship in order to benefit bipolar sufferer. I must admit I have really really fallen in love with a divorced bipolar woman who is 11 years older than me. However she is in love with a man more her age however he has been living with his girlfriend for the past 3 years and I can see that he is using her but she can't see this and insists on sticking with him.

I have met her 3 kids and they are really lovely children to be around however the ex husband has just moved back in for some reason I am not sure why and she said she doesn't want to ask him to leave as he is abusive mentally and was in the marriage. I have added to her confusion by telling her how I feel about her but she insists this is stupid and I only want her like this because she is comfortable and I have just started new job. She wants to be friends but it will hurt me because I don't agree with the other man she is seeing, I love her so much.What to do?

2006-11-14 01:42:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for almost 7 years. When I first met my husband, I knew that he had an ex who was pregnant. (Who left him) She told him that they were to have no contact over the girl. Yesterday she calls my husband and tells him that his daughter wants to know who her father is and she wanted his opinion on what to tell her. She told him that she wanted his daughter to meet our two children as well as him. She told my husband that she has a boyfriend and that he didnt like her talking to him. She also advised my husband that he would not be able to see his daughter until Feb and it would be only for one day. I feel like my husband should support his daughter but I cant help but wonder why do this and then have to wait to meet her. My husband thinks I am freaking out, because I was crying, trying to decide how to tell our children/family. I just want to make sure I am supportive, but how. He thinks I dont trust him with his ex. He didnt give her our #, just his cell #.

2006-11-14 01:41:56 · 22 answers · asked by Karma 2

Been married for 6 years. I have 2.5 year old whom I adore more than anything or anyone in the world but I'm not happy with my wife and I'm a catholic.My wife has phsycological problem about sex which she neglected to tell me before we got married.Before that, she presented herself as sexually active.I stuck with her, all this while telling her to seek help but she never listen to me.Even while conceiving our son, it was very clinical and stressful for both of us.I grew to resent her for witholding this info from me and for her not taking seeking help(she's not abused in any way by the way).Recently, I've fallen in love with anothe woman.This woman's been very understanding of my problem.My wife found out about our affair and I broke it off. Now my wife wants to get intimate with me, almost forcing herself on me and I can't sense that she's doing it as though it's a chore.I recoil everytime she touches me.. My family wants me to stay with my wife & they are forcing me to do so. So sad.

2006-11-14 01:41:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got married before 8 years. We have very happy married life, but now a days during love making my husband fantasize about wife swapping including his best friend and wife. Does wife swapping exist in real life? Has any body real experience of it...? I am very worried. Please help me.

2006-11-14 01:35:28 · 31 answers · asked by Suchi 2

I recently became engaged to my girlfriend (she asked me), but I haven't been completely truthful with her. We're planning on moving in together in January, so I feel I need to tell her all of the things I haven't, but I feel so ashamed. I haven't graduated from college and I'm in some financial trouble. I love her with all of my heart and I want to be with her for the rest of my life, but I'm afraid this may turn things upside down. I know to be truthful and all of that, but any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-14 01:28:46 · 17 answers · asked by Nick 1

Why and how did it work out? Thanks.

2006-11-14 01:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by turkman g 1

My husband spends money on stupid stuff, knowing we have bills to pay.

2006-11-14 01:12:32 · 21 answers · asked by checotah01 1

My mother in law has been staying out late, hanging out with her gay boss, wants breast implants and a tattoo and told my father in law that he is not letting her be young. My father in law is the greatest husband to her that any woman could ask for. She won't talk to my husband about this and she won't say where she goes at night. Do you think she's having an affair? They have been married 23 years.

2006-11-14 01:05:55 · 13 answers · asked by Lori W 2

Ladies....how would it make you feel if your husband doesn't like to wear his wedding band and men why don't some of you dislike wearing it? My husband and I have been married for 8months, he has never been a flashy person meaning that he has never worn jewlery, he is also a pro-boxer so he is training and at the gym alot, and that is his excuse for not wearing his ring. I know a ring does not make a marriage but its just something that I would like for him to do (wear his ring). We love each other very much and there isn't any real trust issues between us but I would just like for him to wear his ring more. Am I wrong for that??

2006-11-14 01:04:32 · 30 answers · asked by its just me 3

His new favorite saying is "no, I don't have to". my children ar more mature

2006-11-14 01:00:33 · 23 answers · asked by mgtilda 1

Say you were with a woman that was about to get a $250,000 in the near future. If you had cheated on her would you go as far as to swear on your children and lie to protect your "lifestyle," i guess you could say. Would lie for the money?

2006-11-14 00:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by mama4e 2

2006-11-14 00:55:45 · 17 answers · asked by jergirl_2010 1

Ok here's the thing. I like to do things differently, so I am going to propose to my boyfriend. I was going to take him out to dinner and then go to the beach and propose there. Is that romantic or cheesy? Does anyone have any other ideas that are romantic?

I am a romantic person and want everything to be perfect...

2006-11-14 00:55:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is constantly making rude noises. All night in bed, he snorts. I've asked him to do something about his sinuses, but he says he can "live with it" - well it drives me batty! When he drinks soda, he loudly sucks it out of the can like a vacuum cleaner. He makes smacking noises when he eats. He was careful not to do those things while we were dating, but we've been married 5 months now and he's freaking driving me bonkers. I ask him to stop, and now he says that everything he does annoys me. Not everything annoys me - just the rude noises and the fact that he's taken up smoking again (I refused to marry him unless he quit because he's much older than I am and I don't want to be widowed too early). He's getting on my last nerve and I don't know how to get him to stop being so rude, without sounding like a nag.

2006-11-14 00:49:10 · 17 answers · asked by farmgirl 3

Well my husband is professor, and few days ago I was talking with my girlfriend and she told me something which I still can't belive. She is at class where my husbant teach and he don't know who is she, and she told me, on the class is one very cute girl and she is about 25, all the time every class he look at her and have eye contact just with her. All class can see that and everyone talking about that, ¨how he look at her¨. He is ok with me and should I belive in fact that my husband like some 25 cute girl??????

2006-11-14 00:46:41 · 19 answers · asked by Ade 1

I have just found out about my husband affair with a Shanghainese girl. This affair has been going on for about 2 years behind my back despite my suspicions and queries about it from me. Now that the truth is out, he has ended the affair and now wants me to give him a chance to repent and make it up to me for the lost years. Should I give him that chance? I can't make up my mind eventhough deep down I still love him but the hurt is so great whenever I think of him and his mistress. Not to mention the lies he told me whenever I questioned him. Please help!!

2006-11-14 00:43:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

About a year ago I met a bipolar woman who is divorced with three kids. I am 11 years younger than her and to start with she was so sweet, she told me straight away she was bipolar, had been abused when she was younger and she told me a lot of stories about her sexual adventures since her divorce. She told me she had been married for 14 years and her husband was very mentally abusive to her.

After a few months she would tell me stories about how the men she would see would become obsessed with her through no fault of her own. I ignored this until recent events got me thinking, she started to tell me about the amount of blokes she was seeing and she knew I liked her in that way, also I met her 3 kids and they were nice although she insists they have mental problems too. Since contact has been cut I find myself becoming a bit obsessed with her, which got me thinking, is it her that is abusive to the people in her life and she likes to play sick games. What do you think?

2006-11-14 00:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by bob n 1

Some say you only find true love once in your life. I believe you make a soul mate, the longer two people are together and work on their marriage the better soul mates you become. But what if you find another and then are torn between two people? Surely this is common out there. To be married, love your spouse but then stumble upon someone else. Then you wonder if this was meant to be your sould mate.

2006-11-14 00:42:26 · 7 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

I've been posting my wife's topless photos on amateur websites for years, with her permission. I love letting men see how beautiful her big DD breasts are, and I know they love masturbating to her pictures because they email me and tell me how much they love her breasts. Why do I do this? Most men I know don't want other men to EVER see their wife's breasts, but I even ask my wife to wear cleavage tops in public. When she does, I get so excited watching men craning their necks to see her perfect breasts when she bends over and I love seeing them staring at her breasts. (I asked this question once but Yahoo deleted it so I'm rewording it so I won't offend them.) I bought her a bathing suit that her big breasts almost fall out of to wear it on vacation with my bro-in-law and her sister. I loved how my bro-in-law couldn't stop staring at my wife's breasts after he had a few drinks! I would love to let my friends suckle her and masturbate, too, while I masturbate and watch. Is this normal?

2006-11-14 00:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 00:23:17 · 17 answers · asked by SheRa 3

I've been married 2 years. The problem is that my husband and I have separate goals in life. Well, I should say he has none, and I have goals/dreams. He seems content with life as it is and doesn't do anything to better himself or our marriage. Me, on the other hand, want more in life...want to move to another state (somewhere nice year-round), save money so we can go travel (we don't have kids), get a bigger house, have kids, etc. I'm 31 and don't want to waste my life on someone who won't ever see eye-to-eye with me, and before long i'll be getting too old to bear children. What should I do? And yes, I have told him how I feel. He doesn't seem to take me too serious.

2006-11-14 00:20:40 · 11 answers · asked by animal_mother 4

2006-11-14 00:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous