2006-11-14 00:18:30 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been married for 20 yrs, and i still wonder? but comunication is a biggy, understanding a must, but always keep the lines of communications open, never stop talking about what are your feelings or whats going on in your lifes.
Be happy
2006-11-14 00:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by ♥angltouch♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been with my husband for almost five years and we're happier today then we were five years ago. The secret we've found is communication. We talk openly about what's on our minds and in our hearts. We share our hopes and dreams as well as our failures. When things get rough, and they will, keep in mind that the rough patches won't last forever and try to stay focused on the positives of your relationship. Also, don't forget that you can't change a man. You fell in love with him for who he is so don't expect him to become something he's not. Accept his flaws (they all have them, as do we) and focus on his good points. Support him, love him, take care of him....be the best wife you know how to be. Never forget that he loves you for who you are too.
2006-11-14 00:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by Maggie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is --------- you will NEVER keep him continually happy ---- but what you can do is ---- never go to bed on an arguement and that when the kids come and he has to drop in the "pecking order" just remind him from time to time that although you are now a mother you can also still be a lover, if he's a good hubby he will be happy with that
2016-03-19 07:43:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. The human mind has the ability to generate and conjure up a myriad of images, yet we can still share such similar themes in our dreams. This may serve to remind us that perhaps we are all not that different. Some psychologists have argued that our shared dream experiences serve to connect us as a human race. Human beings share common concerns, hopes, fears, and conflicts
2006-11-14 00:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Effective communication
2) Telling and showing him that you truly love him even after marriage
He should do the same as well, honestly.
2006-11-14 02:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't try to keep him "happy", I keep him satisfied and full, I keep him healthy and content with me.
Happiness is just an emotion :)
2006-11-14 00:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explore new things, try new things, keep the marriage exciting and far away from being dull or boring.!!!!
2006-11-14 00:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was apparently happy before he married you so don't change.
2006-11-14 00:34:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was asking myself the same ... now I am asking how does he keep me happy
2006-11-14 00:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by alina d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By trusting him and being an equal partner.
2006-11-14 00:22:20 · answer #10 · answered by Rainbow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋