2006-11-14 00:55:45 · 17 answers · asked by jergirl_2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he is affectionate enough always doting on me. like this am he was erect and rubbing on me and then patted my butt and said you better get ready for work??
2006-11-14 01:28:36 · update #1
Is he on meds? Is he able to perform satisfactorily when you DO have sex? Ask him to get checked out by the doctor. Is it mental, or physical? Once you find this out, then you will know which way to go for help for him. Good Luck!!
2006-11-14 01:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You love him in his way and help him get to a DR to see if he has a blood pressure issue or something keeping him from being able to have sex physically.
If not, then you help him get more rest, because he may simply be worn out from day to day work and family responsibilities.
Be thankful that he is still affectionate, that says he hasn't pulled away from you to cover something else.
2006-11-14 01:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by yeller 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been married? Sometimes after a while things die down. It could be that he feel unconfident about himeself. Talk to him, book a night in a hotel see how that goes. It could be to do with money, kids, self confidence - it does not necessarily imply that there is anything wrong with you both, it can be swings and roundabouts.
2006-11-14 01:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by radicalfunscout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you been married long? Has he made love to you before? If both are no, try going down south and see what is going down there.. And if nothing's going up, try giving the brother down there and little warmth. If nothing is still going up, then move on to next question...
2006-11-14 01:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand...
Your Husband...he is affectionate but will not have sex with you.
You two Make Out on the couch...but never actually have sex?
No making out...but hugs and kisses on the daily basis...no sex?
I don't understand...
2006-11-14 01:13:00 · answer #5 · answered by ladydrea2918 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shoudl talk to him about the situation, sincerely! Since what is holding him back. Is he afraid of the possibility of having kids, is he seeing someone else, is he gay, ect...investigate all possibilities!!!! I know it sounds horrible but that just may be the solution!
2006-11-14 01:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked him why? Maybe he is having difficulty getting an erection and is too ashamed to tell you. Offer support and love, you'll get through this.
2006-11-14 01:08:18 · answer #7 · answered by Cookie On My Mind 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have been together so long and have got stuck in a place where he now see's you as more of a sister?
2006-11-14 01:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either he's gay, or he's trying to cover up "erectile dysfunction". If its the latter, he should go see a doctor...it might be serious like prostate cancer.
2006-11-14 01:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by CloudRider9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a refrigerator wife, this guy you know? Maybe you should tell your friend to 'warm up' down in Antarctica.
2006-11-14 00:58:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋