I've been posting my wife's topless photos on amateur websites for years, with her permission. I love letting men see how beautiful her big DD breasts are, and I know they love masturbating to her pictures because they email me and tell me how much they love her breasts. Why do I do this? Most men I know don't want other men to EVER see their wife's breasts, but I even ask my wife to wear cleavage tops in public. When she does, I get so excited watching men craning their necks to see her perfect breasts when she bends over and I love seeing them staring at her breasts. (I asked this question once but Yahoo deleted it so I'm rewording it so I won't offend them.) I bought her a bathing suit that her big breasts almost fall out of to wear it on vacation with my bro-in-law and her sister. I loved how my bro-in-law couldn't stop staring at my wife's breasts after he had a few drinks! I would love to let my friends suckle her and masturbate, too, while I masturbate and watch. Is this normal?
2006-11-14 00:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hope I don't offend you but it sounds like you like other men more than your wife. You use your wife as a tool to get other men off cause you like watching their reaction. It might just be the way you are wording it but that is what it sounds like to me. Now just wanting other men to envy what you are married to is okay. My husband likes people to envy him because of me, not to the extremes that you do of course. It's okay to admire a woman, that is what we are here for. Women were made to be a compliment to their husbands. But it just really sounds like you get off on the men getting "excited" instead of you getting off watching your wife.
2006-11-14 00:50:43 · answer #1 · answered by Snow 6 · 2⤊ 6⤋
My Wife Showing Off
2016-10-18 05:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't been through something like that only because I am stingy with my wife. I don't want to here how guys think how sexy she is! I am satisfied that my wife knows that I find her extremely sexy and that all that counts for us. However for situation, what is meant by your chat mate wanting to meat your wife? Does he want to get a little personal with her to the point that he would try to be more intimate with your wife? How would you feel if she said yes? A big part of it is how does your wife feel about you showing off her Pics? Show her off around town is one thing. She is OK with that because I am sure it is a big ego booster for her. But does she know that your chat buddies want to have sex with her? She may draw the line to that. If she is unhappy that you are showing her off that way and she doesn't approve of the comments then yes you have gone too far. If she is OK with that, and she would be OK with trying a threesome/swinger lifestyle, then no you haven't. Remember, marriage is a partnership and intimate things like this should be discussed so boundaries can be drawn.
2016-03-28 05:11:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possibilities come to mind:
1) you want external validation that your wife is hot. Other men drooling over your wife affirms to you that you are a successful guy with a hot wife.
2) the end of your note suggests you may have mild 'cuckold' fantasies where other men pleasure your wife. While this may be tied in with (1) I'd hazard a guess it also involves a certain submissive fantasy, actually getting off on being unable to sexually satisfy your wife and being sexually humiliated by having another man take your place. Why some men get off on this (and clearly some do) I don't really know. I can suggest that possibly they feel burdened by the responsibility of sexually satisfying their wife, and this fantasy absolves them of the responsibility.
2006-11-14 02:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by kheserthorpe 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Im the same way. While i wont say its normal but there are allot of us. I think it has to do with validation that she is sexually stimulating.
It gets my blood bpiling to see her exposed.
I even fantacize about her servicing other men. Would i do that? No...but the idea is exciting. Dont beat yourself up. Just rest easy knowing there are others like you.
2016-08-05 12:49:53 · answer #5 · answered by Robert 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not normal...and why would you do that to her....you are setting her up for something neither you are her want.....rape...and yes, these things do happen, and you showing her off on the Internet can/will cause it.....all it takes is for some guy in town to see the pics
2006-11-14 00:46:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
you are fine. no worries. As long as it stays as a fantasy.
You are happy that you have a wonderful woman who is also beautiful and you want the world to know she picked YOU out of everyone else.
2006-11-14 00:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
To feed you ego and male urges
2006-11-14 00:41:31 · answer #8 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You both are exhibitionists! Come on, don't post this level of stupidity here.
2006-11-14 00:43:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
some may say it's not normal, but i say; whatever makes u happy. plus, if it spices up things 4 u and ur wife, i say: GO 4 IT!
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:)
2006-11-14 00:43:51 · answer #10 · answered by black butterfly 1 · 5⤊ 1⤋