ladies i have heard women speak of the fact that they wish that thier husband had some on the side that way she can take the burden of sex off of her. and that confuse me and my ? is why is that and how many women feel the same way
2006-11-14 02:04:16 · 18 answers · asked by izzo808 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i definitely am not one of those people!!!! i would never want my husband to be with anyone else!!!! i am the only person he has ever been with and i don't want that to change ever.....he is one of those guys that wouldn't anyway....he never pressures me into doing anything i don't want to do and i would never do that to him.....i have one of the few good men left in the world!!!!
2006-11-14 02:10:51 · answer #1 · answered by polarbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard women say this, and I myself even have said it. The women's sex drive is rarely equal to her husbands. And because of this, often times the husband will feel deprived, and the wife pressured. If it continues, and their relationship isn't stable, it can cause severe arguments. But I can almost guarantee that if the husband took her comment about getting some on the side seriously, flames would be thrown. It may be used as an excuse to leave him.
The husband needs to realize that their sexual appetites are different, and be respectful toward his wife. Pressuring her for sex is not going to get him anywhere. In many cases, it will cause her to close up even more.
2006-11-14 10:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by kari w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest women dont really mean it, its just that women get tired of having sex all the time. Especially if their man is always hungry for sex. Think about it why would a woman want her man to cheat on her. I would be crushed if my husband did that. I wouldnt take it literally.
2006-11-14 10:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Baby boy blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never heard of a woman saying that before, and really can't see many saying it either. As for me, no that will never be said. I'd rather be burdened with sex with him rather than knowing he is sleeping around. That's just gross and wrong in too many ways.
2006-11-14 10:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that any woman who would feel that is probably not happy with her marriage and contemplating divorce anyways. If your wife feels that sex with you is a burden then she probably doesn't want to be married to you and it's a sign of an underlying problem. In short, if she thinks sex with you is a burden then it's not a good sign.
2006-11-14 10:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some women say that but dont mean it because all men want to do is have sex! They want it all the time and they are always touching us and grabbing us, and it is really annoying! But if he really went out and done it, I am pretty sure we would leave! It is just an expression, not a meaningful saying!
2006-11-14 10:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I would never ever say that.
Those are probably the same women who cry about their husbands cheating on them later on.
But no, I would never say that. For two reasons, I love sex just as much as my husband does. And I could never imagine him being with someone else, that would kill me.
2006-11-14 10:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Barbi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no way....my hubby and i are very active sexually..usually 5-6 times per week. If he has more to give,,,he better be giving it to me. How can sex be a burden anyway?
2006-11-15 01:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by KaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what women you've heard that from, but my hubby better not have some on the side...at least not if he wants to remain married.
2006-11-14 10:09:10 · answer #9 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only time I do not feel like having sex is when I am too, too tired, I would kill someone if I heard they were doing it my man
2006-11-14 10:14:55 · answer #10 · answered by Joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋