Marriage & Divorce - 14 November 2006

In sense of the wife being more aggressive. Do men enjoy it? do they long for more surprises?? Any tips for how to keep them coming back for more or wanting you???

2006-11-14 04:41:09 · 21 answers · asked by betrayed 1

My husband says he just won't get anything for Christmas, I think he should work it off so that he's not left out at Christmas. What do you think???

2006-11-14 04:39:09 · 42 answers · asked by Mommee22 2

my husband did something that really hurt me and he knows it really hurt me and the pain from it will always be there. for the last month he changed the bad things he was doing. Now he is going back to many of the bad things he did and even some extra things he didn't do befor. Trying to lie to me and a new one getting angery with me very easily. He had really changed the attemps to lie to me and had become totaly honest with me. Now he is going back to it. I really thought he wanted us to work out, but ever since I have forgiven him for what he did he has started going back to the lies and now yelling. What should I do? I forgave him shouldn't he continue being good to me now? I really love him and I thought our love, his understand of what he did and willingness to change would be good reasons to stay with him even if what he did really hurt. What happened? Was I wrong to stay? Why is he being this way?

2006-11-14 04:38:34 · 16 answers · asked by desiree d 1

what are you expectations, what a guy can do to you to make you feel better and something of that sort, please help?

2006-11-14 04:37:58 · 25 answers · asked by Ayati 3

i found out my wife of 22yrs was talking to a co worker on her cell phone and on our computer for the last six mounts.
when i confronted her she was shocked, but swears she never had any phyiscle contact with him,.. he was only someone to talk to....the emotional part of this whole thing is killing me because i love her to death..i did'nt ask her to leave because of the embaressmant it would had on our family and also because i love her, she says she loves me and just got caught in a momant, whatever that means???
can i trust her again?

2006-11-14 04:36:39 · 26 answers · asked by confused 1

My sister got mad because I leave the toilet seat up. She then asked why us men can't aim. I said well, when it is a stream you can aim it, but those last few drips cannot be aimed. She thought i was lying but its true. Those last few drips cannot be aimed. We are doing you a favor by putting the seat up. At least you wont have to sit in a puddle of piss.

2006-11-14 04:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

About 7% of the population in North America seem to be naturals, and about another 3% manage to figure it out before they undermine their marriages to the point they will never be truly happy, but most of us have to find out the hard way by going though one bad match after another until we start asking ourselves what makes a good relationship work. This board has convinced me that the healthy 10% do not post here for the most part.

2006-11-14 04:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 04:30:50 · 7 answers · asked by Nasty_Guy 2

I recived an order dated 10-31-06 ordering my ex to pay me directly weekly. He just filed a motion to reconsider. Does he have to still pay the support until the motion to reconsider is ruled on?

2006-11-14 04:28:50 · 5 answers · asked by rubmaster36 2

Ok, my husband works 5 days a week (Mon-FrI) and every weekned he wanted to go visit his parents. Itold him that it was not right that we could not make plans because I already know that he had something to do (go visit his parents) Well we had a few arguments about this until he decieded that he was going to go visit them only on weekdays he didnt work because of th weather (he works in construction, so its outdoors). Well when he goes byhimself he spends hours at his parents' (maybe 3 or more) and when we go together its only like an hour maximum. THat really bothers me because everytime he goed by himself I keep thinking that he is coming home in an hour or two but he doesnt! Am i doing something wrong or am I right?

2006-11-14 04:28:18 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Duranguense Mami♥ 1

I am wondering whether there are guys n gals who can indulge in sex for more than 1 time in each session (night/day whatever). if yes, then how are you able to do it again? in most cases, it is over after the first session and then it can earliest happen the next day! Pls share your experiences.

2006-11-14 04:27:24 · 10 answers · asked by bh37bh37 3

She let it roll in the lake and sink. That happened last year and were still together because I love her and that is pretty strong love.

2006-11-14 04:23:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don'tknow what to get him...He loves everything I get him but I want to wow him...p.s. I'm poor...

2006-11-14 04:22:50 · 4 answers · asked by angelic1302 3

Hi, my boyfriend wants to have a threesome with me and someone else..I was just wondering if there is anyone out there that has done and is it a good idea?




Some one once told me that if i wanted to do it,,,go to a BIG city and hire an escort, and do it that way, then there are no ties to that person what so ever..is that a good idea?



does it ruin your relaionship if you bring another women in the bedroom?

2006-11-14 04:19:26 · 42 answers · asked by kelsey b 1

I just found out my baby's father has been cheating on me every since we got together. He is still in a relationship with his so called ex so I guess I was the one he was cheating with. We have a one year old son together and he hasn't done anything for him. He just starting paying child support in August and my baby turned one in October. I checked his voice mail and found out about these other girls and one of them called me threatening to kill me, my family and my son. I can't let this man get my child and take him around this female. What options do I have? I'm about to press charges now.

2006-11-14 04:17:29 · 16 answers · asked by LADY H 2

hi everybody,I posted another question not to long ago.but anyway this question has to do with a womans infedelity to a faithful spouse.I'v been married 14 years and provided my wife with what I though she wanted and needed.she on the other hand was always drinking and on the net at home while I busted my butt earning a living so that I could put food on the table and clothe on my wife and 2 childrens backs.I have always been faithful never abused her in any way and very supportive of what she wanted in life.now she is up north with our kids ,but is coming home do to the kids being home sick.she tells me we're only going to be friends cause she's got some 25 yr old guy who is going through a divorce him self telling herwhat she wants to hear,I'm 32 and shes 34yrs old.they say I look 20.any way people tell me since this guy is staying up north they,relationship wont work cause its long distance and it will fade.they tell me I can save my marriage.I'm still very much in love with her.

2006-11-14 04:14:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love you? When you are talking to spouses, parents, friends, or family? My Dad still has trouble doing this, but I always end our conversation with an I love you!

2006-11-14 04:07:51 · 16 answers · asked by LeeLynn 5

What the hell is that? He only wears it when i ask him to. What to do . is this a clear sign of non committment? :(

2006-11-14 04:07:16 · 28 answers · asked by chitchat 1

2006-11-14 04:06:50 · 5 answers · asked by teeis42 1

2006-11-14 04:06:16 · 28 answers · asked by confused 1

Some say you only find true love once in your life. I believe you make a soul mate, the longer two people are together and work on their marriage the better soul mates you become. But what if you find another and then are torn between two people? Surely this is common out there. To be married, love your spouse but then stumble upon someone else. Then you wonder if this was meant to be your sould mate.

2006-11-14 04:06:07 · 9 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

2006-11-14 04:00:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 03:56:25 · 28 answers · asked by teeis42 1

I posted a question before about me remaining a virgin for 5 yrs. My husband never penetrated but just had oral sex. Thanks to your answers, I found out he is seeing someone else. BUT what I dont understand is....he just started seeing her 8 months ago, and he didnt answer if he had sex with her.
Is it possible for him to penetrate her given the fact that he didnt stray for a whole 4 yrs but never penetrated me? I mean, can a normal guy refrain from getting in for all these years?
His excuse now is my tobacco consumption put him off but he never said that before and he didnt penetrate even when I didnt smoke....
'It' would stand for a little while but never get in but he would ***.I have no clue. First he said he is incapable now he says it was voluntary. Could I have a prob then?
But I always had normal sexual desires, just remained faithful and virgin for his love. I am moving on but the curiosity is killing me. Impotence and infidelity doesnt go. If he's gay then why a girl!

2006-11-14 03:55:30 · 36 answers · asked by distressed_needhelp 1

I have been having an affair with a married man for two years now. I have fallen in love with him and he has told me he loves me and had feelings for me as well. We live in different cities, see each other when time allows and talk on the phone daily sometimes two three times a day.

Recently I asked him was he seeing others besides me and his wife (meaning was he sexually involved with others) -- he told me yes there were 4 others :( he is free to do what he wishes but 4?

I am heartbroken, but he continues to tell me how much our friendship and our relationship means to him and that he would never lie to me therefore the reason he told me the truth.

My first instinct is to tell him to get lost and never speak to him again. Is it possible that he means what he says and that he does love me and respect me or am I being stupid and I am just one more piece of a$$ for him? I can't seem to get him out of my head and it hurts to have allowed myself to be so stupid.

2006-11-14 03:51:07 · 36 answers · asked by heart wide open 1

He hasn't cheated in over 3 years though, since our first daughter was conceived. He says that she changed his life and that he would never cheat again because he wouldn't want our daughter to blame him for not having both parents and hurting her mother.

2006-11-14 03:44:15 · 34 answers · asked by mama4e 2

Ever since she found out how much her kids adore me she has told my boyfriend (her ex husband) that the kids are not allowed to be around me. They have shared custody and practice co-parenting. He argued that they are his kids, too and that I am good for them...to which she said, "I don't like her and she is not to be around our kids!" The kids love me...want me at their soccer games, plays, etc...beg me to stay when it's time to leave. (she never attends these events and treats them as an inconvenience to her "partying" schedule) I love the kids. Ex wife has said that after my boyfriend and I have dated for one full year I am allowed to be around the kids...I understand she may be afraid of them growing close and me leaving, but he and I are already making long term plans. We are all upset by this. How do we sway her from these demands?...and not make her more upset. She's pretty crazy and we don't want to rock the boat too much...suggestions?

2006-11-14 03:43:56 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer L 2

What do you think about this? My fiance' and I have been together for 7 years, his mom and my dad now decided they are going to get married before us. They have only been together 1 month, barely know each other, and are engaged (with no ring by the way). We think this is very disfunctional and won't allow our children around it. I NEED SOME OPINIONS. THANKS!

2006-11-14 03:43:35 · 5 answers · asked by amy m 1

2006-11-14 03:40:58 · 22 answers · asked by kaybaby200688 2

2006-11-14 03:39:20 · 15 answers · asked by reese 1