2006-11-14 04:06:16 · 28 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, they can. People cheat for different reasons, but that doesn't mean that the love for their mate is completely gone. The person that cheated is selfish and has little or no self control and should not be trusted until they can prove that they deserve to be.
The question you should ask yourself is can you forgive this person for cheating on you and do you love them enough to possibly give them a second chance? If no, then it doesn't really matter if that person loves you or not.
2006-11-14 04:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by tipper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know everyone has their own opinion, but here is how I see it. My husband and I have been together a little over 4 years. In the beginning we were just as much in love with one another and today even more. There are factors that change situations. Temptation is a hard thing to resist if you dont have a strong mind. Lets face it were all human, and we all make mistakes. My husband did cheat on me at one time, and it took me a while to forgive him. God kept me strong through it and eventually I was able to trust.... my husband has regretted it since the day of. He didnt lie to me and he has shown me more genuine from the heart love after and we have a better relationship today because we were able to get past what happened. Its hard to say really what will happen because all men are different as well as us women, but if he loves you and is truly sorry, he will do everything in his power to make sure that from this point forward you are the only goddess in his eyes. He can tell you until the sky falls down, but its not about telling someone anything, its about showing them. You will be able to know from his actions and what he's all about. God bless and good luck!
2006-11-14 12:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many will say yes and that may be true,perhaps they didn't realize the love until it was lost/but,I don't think there is a good reason for any one to cheat,Being honest is the only way out.I truly believe that loving some one keeps you from hurting them and sex isn't something that can be caught like a virus,you have to make a conscious decision to take your clothes off and enter into a sexual act.
2006-11-14 12:12:20 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they loved you why would they cheat on you to make you feel bad. If they loved you they would think about things and don;t do things to hurt you. You just don't wake up one morning and say on i'm gonna cheat on the one person i love thats bull sh**. So NO way in h*ll they love you if they cheated on you.
2006-11-14 12:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by I love you! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you definition of love is different than mine... because in my definition my partner has a high interest level in me, respects me, and had enough integrity that they'd leave me before cheating on me.
Maybe you should be setting the bar higher?
2006-11-14 12:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible if they realized that they made a mistake i've cheated on someone and i still love him but he cheated also and we're still together but in the end if it doesnt work move on
2006-11-14 12:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by shawnsboo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I don't think so. People cheat because they are unhappy with their situation. Also, I don't think you should blame yourself for this in any way--there are a lot of people who are just plain scum, and will do whatever they feel like, without regard to anyone else's feelings.
2006-11-14 12:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by curiogirl84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is yes. I cheated on my boyfriend and I love him.it was wrong but its true.some times you just need more then your what your partner can give.
if you are wanting to cheat i don't recommend it you will only hurt after its done.if you do cheat you will always be paranoid that your partner is cheating on you.
2006-11-14 12:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that sometimes we take our spouses for granted and they don't feel loved or appreciated. therefore someone else comes along and makes them feel alive again. i have been cheated on, told he didn't love me anymore. in the end he says that while we working on getting back together " he felt that spark of anxousness to see and be with me again" he thought he could never feel again with me. So YES..... you can still be loved BUT U need to cautious...
2006-11-14 12:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by chitchat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. They may have needs they do not feel are being met at home, either physical or emotional, and seek it elswhere but still love the spouse.
2006-11-14 12:10:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋