What do you think about this? My fiance' and I have been together for 7 years, his mom and my dad now decided they are going to get married before us. They have only been together 1 month, barely know each other, and are engaged (with no ring by the way). We think this is very disfunctional and won't allow our children around it. I NEED SOME OPINIONS. THANKS!
2006-11-14 03:43:35 · 5 answers · asked by amy m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why rush? If you are going to be with someone for the rest of your life? THE REASON I"M UPSET IS BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE CALLING MY FIANCE' AND I BROTHER AND SISTERNOW.MY FAMILY IS BETTER THAN THAT AND I DON"T WANT IT AROUND MY KIDS. BESIDES THEY DONT SPEND TIME WITH MY KIDS ANYWAY. FOR PEOPLE WHO ARE SAYING WE ARE LIVING IN SIN, YEAH DUH COMMON KNOWLEDGE, BUT JUST REMEMBER SOCIETY HAS CHANGED WE ARE NOT THE ONLY ONES AND ALSO IT IS NOT 1945 ANYMORE.
2006-11-14 04:01:44 · update #1
I played second fiddle behind my in laws for 20 years. It only gets worse. If you want to have a life. The guy you are with should stand up and be a man . You are the most important thing in his life, not his parents. If he will not stand up for you run the other way. He is still a mom's boy and it will only get worse. I know I been there. I can't figure out why men do not have a back bone when it comes to confronting their parents on any level.
2006-11-14 04:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be crazy. These people are adults who can do exactly what they choose to do. You won't allow your children to be around their grandparents for this. This is nuts. Seek some help for yourself before you say of do something that you will regret.
2006-11-14 11:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the pot calling the kettle black?You are not married and living in sin as it's called and your parents want to marry which is beautiful,and you don't want your kids????to be around them ?You are dysfunctional in your attitude and thinking.
2006-11-14 11:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah well watcha gonna do if one day your grown kid comes home and tells you they met someone 3 days ago and married them? And this person is a non blood related ex aunt. You gonna spank them and send them to their room?
2006-11-14 11:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??? His mom and dad are getting married???
2006-11-14 11:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lynne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋