Marriage & Divorce - 14 November 2006

I believe that you can get arrested for punching an alien in the face if you see one. My wife thinks that you can't because they are not from our planet. Now Steve says that you can only get arrested for punching an alien if it is a policeman in a Jar Jar Binks costume.

Please can you tell me who's right? Before you answer, can I just warn you that my wife has blonde hair and Steve is thick too.

Quickly answer as we are shouting at each-other. We have already been fighting about this for 2 hours. Infact, I have just gave Steve a broken nose because he accidentally spat in my face when he shouted at me. The wife is crying now because I accidentally stood on her foot when I called Steve a dopy git.

So please tell us the answer so we can all go to bed, except Steve.

2006-11-14 11:06:55 · 23 answers · asked by gulliblepeople 2

your wife wants you to dress up in her clothes?

2006-11-14 11:06:48 · 11 answers · asked by rchrdsn_rymnd 1

Do you think everyone has one or do you think that each person can have several?

2006-11-14 11:04:31 · 26 answers · asked by charlize 1

I feel that my children aren't safe with my wifes new b/f i no nothing about him she won't even let me meet him not that i want to all i no is the frist name and where he is from do i have the right to take them?

2006-11-14 10:53:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I spend a lot of our social time with his siblings. The one's we spend most of our time with are either just about to get married or don't have any kids yet. They all enjoy spending time with us and our three girls, because they want kids themselves. But I often find myself jealous of their freedom and their new relationships. And it bugs me that we aren't like we were when we were first together anymore, since we hardly have alone time without kids and my husband never treats me special anymore. I kind of wish now that we would have waited to have kids until all of them do. Mostly so that we could do all of the activities and go on dates with them, without our kids. But also because I see them travelling and going to school and having good careers, and we missed out on those things. Is it normal to have these feelings? Is there any way to make me feel better? Don't get me wrong, I love my kids and we do have some friends with kids that we enjoy time with.

2006-11-14 10:52:37 · 3 answers · asked by mommyem 4

My hubby has been gone 7 days and was supposed to come home today. I just found out that he may not be coming home. How do you deal with your husband being gone all of the time, Do you have any suggestions on how to make being lonely easier??

2006-11-14 10:49:43 · 8 answers · asked by Easter Bunny 4

What do you do when everything is against you? What do you do when you do your best, and your best isn’t good enough? What do you do when you do more than your best, you do everything right and you still get hurt? What do you do when you love someone so much, you care about them so much, and the two of you are so good together that everyone around you knows it, but her parents want to rip you apart because you are of two different races? What do you do with so much pain? I can’t tell her my pain because it hurts her. They hurt her, I can’t do it too. Every tear she sheds is a spear through my heart. What do you do when you fear losing the one person you love so much and care so much about? What do you do when the person you love fears standing up for you? What do you do when the person you will do anything for is so scared that she can’t stand up for the two of you? I sit here in tears in a desolate place reaching out to the internet community, because I have no one left to

2006-11-14 10:49:17 · 7 answers · asked by TheT 2

Approximately 50% of people cheat(equal for men and women), which means that 1 of the 2 spouses will cheat. With the divorce rates around 50%, that means half of people stay with a cheater. Are you the cheater or the one who gets cheated on? Are the one who stays or the one who leaves if you get cheated on?

2006-11-14 10:46:54 · 28 answers · asked by Nep 6

I already KNOW that most men are bonkers for sex. But are there some men (not boys) out there who could take it or leave it? Maybe even live without it? Have a blase attitude? Why?

2006-11-14 10:44:09 · 8 answers · asked by Ade 6

i tell lies and i don't want to do it anymore. most of the lies i tell are about me....making me look better in others eyes. i hate this about myself. i don't know why i do it. is there help for me? is this an actual condition, or am i just a bad person?

2006-11-14 10:37:53 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1

the Man she had been sleeping with has been living in my attic for a month and i had no idea. when i say living, he has a furnished room..
i came home early from work last week and heard something and then caught them in the act. when i told him to go home, he went up to the attic. i followed him to find that the storage room had become a bedroom. i went to confront my wife and she had already left (i haven't seen her since).

in order to get him out of the house i have to evict him...according to the police.
i am so upset right now. since my wife left, i have no one to help with the bills.. should i just charge him rent so i can make ends meet? he doesn't have anywhere to go.

2006-11-14 10:36:59 · 52 answers · asked by Italian Stallion 2

not internet dating sites but proper avenues to meet other single christians who want to date.

2006-11-14 10:33:14 · 19 answers · asked by valentinebaby 1

im 22 and my husband is 26, we have been married for 6 years. whne we first got together we both had no money but we were happy. then he finally got a job and began working. then 2 years ago his mother died and i was his rock. he ended losing his job and i got 2 jobs , one as a cleaner and the other working in an office, it didnt bother me he was sitting around the house his mother had died and he was upset. with our money i pad for boys nights outs with him and his friends and bought him presents. last year he finally got a new job and he loved it, it was paying more money and told me his boss loved him. after not being there long he was given a better position in work and was makiing loads of money. since earning more he didint want to knoew me anymore. he would stay out most nights and and one night actually confessed to me he had been cheating. he had been sleeping with his female boss and 2 collegues. i said i was leaving but he didint care. now were getting divorced. but why

2006-11-14 10:30:11 · 21 answers · asked by bobby t 1

I'm trying to get a honest view here. The day before, my boyfriend
told me he was going to take me out. He didn't tell me what time, he just said he was giving me the heads up and he would call me.
That morning, he was knocking on my door and I woke up stunned. He said he had called me but I didn't answer. I didn't hear the phone ring. He was really really mad at me. Is the angier justified. I had my clothes ironed and stuff, I feel so bad, but don't understand why he got so mad. Doesn't everyone make mistakes, he lives thirty minutes away and I was expecting his call to wake me up. I he overreacting, when he came I said "i'll be ready in a few minutes" and I rushed to get ready. Is this something that he is justfied getting very angry with?

2006-11-14 10:29:15 · 23 answers · asked by Muse 4

30yrs old, Got married 1 month ago, we were together for 7 years before the wedding, we have 2 kids. Beginning of this year she moved out and got her own place, left me with the kids 5-6 days a week. She started dating other people but mainted she was innocent and had not slept with anyone else. We got back together in June and married last month. She was sleeping with my best friend behind my back (no love just sex), neither admitted it till yesterday. She says they ended it before we got back together. I had no clue they lied, very clever. If she had been honest about this, I would not have gotten back together with her and then married. I know why she lied, and I am (was?) happy our family is together, but my ego hurts. Wasn't technically cheating, we were broke up, I don't want a divorce, but I was lied to and betrayed. How do I get over this? I now feel like cheating on her.

2006-11-14 10:26:03 · 18 answers · asked by al bundy 2

i need to know if my husband can drop his lawyer

2006-11-14 10:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by vicentemariajac 1

You all know the phrase.... The one that goes something like this.......
It's not that I don't love you, I'm just not "in love" w/ u ! WTH does this mean and do they think this actually makes things better or easier? That is the biggest bunch of crock I've ever heard!!

2006-11-14 10:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by ~B~ 4

What do you do when everything is against you? What do you do when you do your best, and your best isn’t good enough? What do you do when you do more than your best, you do everything right and you still get hurt? What do you do when you love someone so much, you care about them so much, and the two of you are so good together that everyone around you knows it, but her parents want to rip you apart because you are of two different races? What do you do with so much pain? I can’t tell her my pain because it hurts her. They hurt her, I can’t do it too. Every tear she sheds is a spear through my heart. What do you do when you fear losing the one person you love so much and care so much about? What do you do when the person you love fears standing up for you? What do you do when the person you will do anything for is so scared that she can’t stand up for the two of you? I sit here in tears in a desolate place reaching out to the internet community, because I have no one left to

2006-11-14 10:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by TheT 2

Every few months my hubby goes into a major sulk. He doesn't speak to me for sometimes days on end. When he does talk again, he says he doesnt know what was wrong. Over the past few weeks he has got a lot worse. He sleeps constantly, only getting up to eat and go to work, wears the sames clothes for days and is always so grumpy. I asked him if he thought he might be depressed but he said no. I hate living with him like this and think our kids have a right to a happy home. What do I do?

2006-11-14 10:18:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

woman was in bed with her lover when she heard her husband opening the front door. "Hurry!" she said. "Stand in the corner."

She quickly rubbed baby oil all over him and then she dusted him with talcum powder. "Don't move until I tell you to," she whispered. "Just pretend you're a statue."

"What's this, honey?" the husband asked as he entered the room.

"Oh, it's just a statue," she replied nonchalantly. "The Smith's bought one for their bedroom. I liked the idea so much, I got one for us, too."

No more was said about the "statue." Not even later that night when they went to sleep. Around two in the morning, the husband got out of bed, went into the kitchen, and returned with a sandwich and a glass of milk.

"Here," he said to the statue. "Eat this. I stood like an idiot at the Smith's for three days and nobody offered me so much as a glass of water."

2006-11-14 10:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by G 1

my husband doesnt want me to work because he is taking really good money and he wants from me to take care about family.but we are married before one month and we dont have children and i am living now in thessaloniki with him and i dont know people because i am from other country and i dont know how to make order in my life.please i want advices help me

2006-11-14 10:13:55 · 9 answers · asked by vanjicka27 1

and was married to a physician for 14 years, he made very good money so my alimony is very good. I have a nice car, house, I'm well educated, attractive but most importantly I'm a very nice, kind person. I'm not stuck on myself at all and while I get asked out, it's usually turns into them wanting to jump in the sack. I can't seem to get passed that with most men. I guess I don't understand really, are men afraid of a successful, attractive woman? I get so tired of guys going "well I don't make a lot of money like what you're used to" but what they don't understand is I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me, just a partner to share life with, what is the deal? Why do they always feel like they can't measure up?? I'm not doing anything purposely to give off that impression

2006-11-14 10:13:11 · 18 answers · asked by ooolala 2

Reallyembarracing

2006-11-14 10:11:04 · 11 answers · asked by K. L. 1

Ok I am asking you to put yourself in my shoes for a moment. My wife and I have been married for 2 years now. We are both currently 23. I am in the Army and have been deployed to Afghanistan for about 10 months now. Well, when I went home after 6 months of being in Afghanistan, I found out that she was with somebody else (not the whole time I was over here). I told her that it was over and that I was going to get a divorce. Well, about a week ago she emailed me asking me to call her. So, I did. We talked about a lot of things that night and the following nights. We eventually talked about getting back together. In the past few days when I call our conversations only last several minutes because she either has to get ready for work or is at work, and nothing is really said. So, I told her I would call earlier so that way she doesnt have to be anywhere and we can just talk. Well, now when I try and call her she doesnt answer my calls.I have 2 monthes left. Should I keep trying or forget?

2006-11-14 10:05:33 · 22 answers · asked by cody h 2

why is it when a woman meets a man that will treat her right,and be true blue,she still see's others on the side and swear on her life that you are the only one at the same time?

2006-11-14 09:58:45 · 18 answers · asked by waljac6108 5

I have been with my man for three years. He is a wonderful man, and I love him to death but I need to leave him. I love him but I am not IN love with him anymore.

He’s older and ready to get married and all that stuff that goes along with that... I am not. I have been thinking about moving back in with my mom so that I can start my life all over again. I have no money and lots of bills so I have to start all over. I need to learn how to support myself before I can marry someone.

This will be the hardest thing I have ever done... does anyone have advice on how to call it off with out devastating him? Or can someone help me a little and build me up to go through with this? I love him, I just can give him the commitment that he wants.

2006-11-14 09:53:24 · 14 answers · asked by girl_in707 3

I miss u so much!I have been thinking about you all day! Can i tell you something that will stay between u and I?Ok, here goes, I am so scared about getting married.I never thought i would be, but i am.Its just that everytime we fight I just keep thinkin, god we are going to be having this same fight forever and ever!That is so scary! And everytime we fight i think of u.I think about how much fun i have always had with u, and how we probably wouldnt fight like this.What if i am not supposed to marry him.And even if i do marry him, i think that i will always wonder what life would have been like if i was with u.I hate this.You prob dont even feel the same way about me anymore.I just have never had the connection that we have even when we are thousands of miles apart talking on the phone.I dont know who to talk to about this except u.I think that i Love u, I have always loved u.But i have never let myself love u.now i am here unable to love u and its all i can think about.What do I do???

2006-11-14 09:52:50 · 11 answers · asked by Lightchaser 1

would you consider this cheatin , she says they are just friends, it went on for over a month , ive moved out ( didnt want to move kids

2006-11-14 09:50:57 · 16 answers · asked by be real 1

I may have Hepatocellular is a liver cancer. I am married with a family for nine year but we are seperated she does't under stand that i could die from this at anytime all i have ask of her is to help me thru this and be there and all she has told me was what about the past of the hurt i have put her thru. People make mistakes that much i do no. I just want to spend as much time that i can with my family she is being selfish and rotten there is another man in the picture could he be the blame of her being as cold as she is.

2006-11-14 09:47:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has been pretty ademate on leaving me this past month. we have been separate this whole time. We have known each other for 6 years and married one year. She is filling the papers and moving back to her home town yet lately keeps saying things like "she doesn't know whats going to happen with us in the future". Is she just keeping me on the back burner or really considering me? I am so confused because I want move on with my life and get over her yet she keeps dropping lines like that lately that get my hopes up. Thoughts?

2006-11-14 09:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by fedup 1