why is it when a woman meets a man that will treat her right,and be true blue,she still see's others on the side and swear on her life that you are the only one at the same time?
2006-11-14 09:58:45 · 18 answers · asked by waljac6108 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I've been the other guy on the side.
First, think about how women are.
They like to shop.
If they see a good deal they will take it even if they can't use it.
Then they will go shopping again to find more deals.
The same goes for how they see men.
They see a good guy and they will snatch him up, that doesn't stop them from going to the market to see if they can find a better deal (in this case man).
The thing is people are more complex than "what you see is what you get". How is this handled? They see some and develop a friendship and if it looks like a good trade up the friendship grows into a special friend and then a friend that is never spoken about -SECRET SPECIAL FRIEND.
The good guy at home back home becomes the "back up" guy in case she the better deal doesn't pay off.
The trick is to never give her the security that you will stay regardless what she does. Relationships are NOT permanent or fixed. If she thinks you will take her crap she will give it to you. Anyone at any time can leave a relationship for no reason. By not being in her palm she then has to work on keeping you instead of looking for a better deal else where.
2006-11-14 10:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all women are like that at all. It really does tick me off when a woman ends up with a good man and then treats him like crap. They have no clue how lucky they really are to get a good man. Some of us never get that lucky. If she even loved him to start with, she would have never cheated on him or treated him like crap. Boy then again, SOME people don't even know what the word LOVE means!!! It sure is not out acting like a dog when you have someone at home that really does care a lot about you.
2006-11-14 19:29:13 · answer #2 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not always the case hon. In fact it is a two way street. When you do meet that someone who you feel is right for you then she will not see others on the side. If she still is doing that then you need to move on because she is not the one for you or at the very least tell her to make up her mind and it's you or nothing. Good luck!
2006-11-14 18:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not all women do this, maybe she feels that she is not ready to settle down. Maybe she does not want a commited relationship and does not know how to tell you and chooses to see other people. If she really likes you she would only see you.
2006-11-14 18:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by lizzy tee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are that way.. If that is the case with the woman your with i'd talk to her and find out what is going on.. We can be scared too..
2006-11-14 18:22:20 · answer #5 · answered by truckmama_34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never figured this out....but one thing is true, she is a player and possibly just not the one for you. Get out before your are too deeply invested. Better toknow now, then after marriage and children.
2006-11-15 00:55:44 · answer #6 · answered by KaLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people can be nymphos or insecure & need their egos stroked by being desired by others/ others willing to be with them. More than one person wanting to be w/them can be ego stroking. I don't know if I'm articulating that right...
2006-11-14 18:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by Nocine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she can not be satisfied with one....if she was truthful about her preferences then it wouldn't be half as bad as decieving you with it....that does and will always sicken me to my very core.
if I were you I would take off running and not look back on this one.....unless you feel there could be a chance of her changing.
2006-11-14 18:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny yess those are hoe's! It's just the whole thing about being narcists and co-dependents.... opposites do attract.
2006-11-14 18:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women? men do it too its the human in all of us to want what we cannot have
2006-11-14 18:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋