my husband doesnt want me to work because he is taking really good money and he wants from me to take care about family.but we are married before one month and we dont have children and i am living now in thessaloniki with him and i dont know people because i am from other country and i dont know how to make order in my life.please i want advices help me
2006-11-14 10:13:55 · 9 answers · asked by vanjicka27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well it is very difficult to understand just what you area asking here.
You have moved to another country and everything is new.
You speak English enough to get along but I do not understand what you mean by make order.
Do you mean when you go to the store?
Order from a menu?
No matter where you go that you have never been before it is always difficult until you get use too it. If you have a language translation problem it makes it even harder.
You say you are now living in thesaloniki. Where and what is that.
Did you mean you live in the Salonika? or just mis-spelled it.
Sorry to be of no help. Communication is everything on here.
2006-11-14 10:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thessaloniki or Salonica is in the region of Macedonia in north Greece for those who dont know,a very beautiful city. I live in Thessaloniki as well and my girlfriend is French and is living here for 2 years. She had some trouble in the begining as well but now she speaks Greek and has really adopted well and also made her own friends not just those that are mine. She had a job at first but now she works at home doing translations for webbased companies.Maybe you should try doing something similar.This way you could keep yourself occupied and also be at home so your husbant doesnt object.Otherwise you should talk to him and make him understand your problem.I wish my wife worked and i didnt have to work and go around all day in this beautiful city. :)
2006-11-16 11:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by iguana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always wanted to work to have my own spending money. Sometimes we depend on somebody else entirely, and God forbid that something should happen where we can't depend on that person any more. Then it's a chore to learn a new skill or go back to school.
Even part-time work is good. Everybody needs a friend or associate to socialize with or talk to. Voluntary work is also good; visiting nursing homes, joining a bowling league. You've got to get out or become a hermit.
2006-11-14 18:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by lottierichardson 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well dont work start a family and if you dont want that then sit down and have a truly heart to heart talk with him. if he loves you then hell be understanding
2006-11-14 18:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by mperezwp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to start working because you want to, then do it. If he really loves you, he will understand and will let you. Unless he has a really really really really really really really really good reason.
2006-11-14 18:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by Elemelapea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of your kids, he knows tax laws, you should trust him on this
2006-11-14 18:25:18 · answer #6 · answered by Scott B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get pregnant
2006-11-14 18:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're living where? If you want to work, tell him you want to work.
2006-11-14 18:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't know i envy you for having this problem !
2006-11-14 18:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋