Marriage & Divorce - 14 November 2006

and you wake up in the morning with your eyes all puffy...How do I get rid of that? Like warm or cold cloth or something. (please don't ask the reason why I was crying)

2006-11-14 15:01:38 · 18 answers · asked by valerier925 1

2006-11-14 15:00:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Long story short - I have two sons (soon to be 16 & 14) that have repeatedly told their father they do not want to see him. He refused to go on "long distance" visitation when I moved due to my job (i live within 100 miles of him). He has not seen them since Feb. Some of the time the boys have stayed home because of being in sports, he didnt even want them for father's day this year. Now he is complaining becuz boys told him "why do you want us for thanksgiving when you havent wanted us any other time?" ex's future spouse emailed boys and told them if they were her's she would spank them. Ex's family now emailing me nasty letters stating i keep the boys from them (when i do not boys have access to phone, computer & stamps and contact them anytime they wish to do so), ex's sister went to sporting event and sat next to one of the boys and never spoke to them. she sent the boys an email about me putting me down. I am tired of being walked on - is there ANYTHING i can do?? HELP!!

2006-11-14 14:58:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife's birthday is coming up in less than a month. I have decided that I'm going to send her to a day spa as her birthday present.

What I am wondering is, do you think I should send her there alone, or should I go with her, I am thinking about giving her a massage package for her birthday, but the spa also has couple's massages, should I send her alone or go with her and do it as a couple?

2006-11-14 14:47:59 · 18 answers · asked by Bryan M 5

I saw her looking at me with a knife, as she was peeling the potatoes. She looked at me in a evil way. Do you think she wants to kill me because I've never managed to make her ***?

2006-11-14 14:40:04 · 28 answers · asked by gulliblepeople 2

When I married my wife she was a package deal. Daughter and mother in law. Daughter cause she is under age and mother in law cause she is disable. After my wife and I married we bought a home and were taking care of her mom since she really has no one else to look after her or anyone willing to do so.

However I was unfortunetly enough to loose my wife to a fatal car accident. Now I am taking care of her daughter since the dad was never in the picture and also found myself caring for her mom. I do not mind this as they do help around the house and at least I get warm meals and laundry is done, house is clean.

I am still young 37 y/o and eventually would like to start another relationship when I feel ready to move on. My question is , If it was you the one I started to date and presented you with the situation, what reaction should I expect and what could I say to ease the fact that my mother in law lives with me?

2006-11-14 14:35:45 · 22 answers · asked by Cyrinos 4

My husband lies to me about money - pretty much regardless of the situation. Previously - we paid our own bills. That wasn't working, I always had to replinish his accounts. So - he had his entire paycheck deposited into my account and I give him an allowance. (He did this on his own volition) But - now he just writes multi-thousand dollar checks on my account to access money. Without telling me. So - our finances are screwed up. They stay screwed up. He says he is scared to talk to me .... but why? I don't throw things, I don't hit him...I typically just help him out. My biggest issue here is God said to be married through good and bad. Not to just cut & run....

2006-11-14 14:32:58 · 35 answers · asked by Jennifer W 1

Married 13 years, together 20. It all started to fall apart with lies (her), and lack of trust (me of her). We all know, with lack of trust, and a track record of lies, stupid things are said and done (both of us). I am trying to reconcile, especially with the Holidays and all, but she offers no help, I ask questions and she has no answers, quit wearing her wedding ring, but still active in bed (could be guilt). I do want to try, and have told her so, but she seems hesitant to participate, I feel like she wants me to cave in and offer up the farm (not gonna happen). I asked for a divorce and she said she would if I wanted, but wont say if its what she wants, ultimately, I just want a resolution, one way or the other. Its been going on a few years now and the end of it all would still be better than the daily B.S., but I just cant get her to talk about it. Any ideas????

2006-11-14 14:32:25 · 11 answers · asked by theun4gvn9599 1

2006-11-14 14:28:07 · 4 answers · asked by C D C 1

I've been with my husband married for three years but alltogether about seven years and sex is just getting so boring that I dont even want to do it any more it seems like its always the same thing every time, any advice on how to improve my sex life

2006-11-14 14:23:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 14:22:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious because we are not mind readers,

2006-11-14 14:20:10 · 12 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3

he has been struggling with a porn addiction.why would he choose a picture of a woman over his wife.i feel so betrayed

2006-11-14 14:15:35 · 15 answers · asked by Jeng 3

2006-11-14 14:02:57 · 10 answers · asked by Robert P 2

My husbands says that he loves me but that he's not in love with me. He says he doesn't feel the way he used to about me and he's been unhappy for a while. He says that he's confused and has to think things through. He's been keeping his feelings to himself and telling other people, not me. He's been working alot and all of his days off and its hard for him to spend time with me and my son. 2 days ago he said that he wants a divorce, 100%. I asked him if we could atleast separate for a month so he could think things through. He agreed. Now it's been a couple of days and he's slowly coming around.I want him to plug back into our family and our relationship. How do I get him to do that without totally running him off? We started dating 9 years ago and we got married 2 years ago. He said the last time that he was happy was just after the start of 2006. He doesn't know why he's unhappy doesn't know what will make him happy. He has been lying to me and to himself. We have a 4yr.

2006-11-14 13:59:58 · 18 answers · asked by venomous354 1

What will you do if your husbands adult daughter 29 years old from ex-wife, asked for a help financially. I know she can afford to go to school by herself without asking my husband because she is working as a nurse in a hospital and have a good salary; but her mom (my husband's ex-wife) is the one who telling her daughter to go and asked for her Dad (my husband) because she is envious and jealous? As a legal wife now, can I ask my husband how much money did he give to her adult daughter from ex-wife because I saw how much is the tuition fee from the University and we don't have savings anymore; but when it comes to my husband's adult kids he will loan money eventhough he cannot afford it but when it comes to me my husband is stingy and don't have money. He don't even give me money. What will you do I want to separate from my husband now and live and start my life and transfer to another State to find my own future coz I don't see my husband have plans for our family building

2006-11-14 13:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by pinaysapinas2004 1

who are really pretty who date guys who are really fat? Do you ever ask yourself, why is she letting that thing role around on top of her??? Do you ask yourself if perhaps he has a lot of money and she is a golddigger?? On the other side, do you ever ask any of these questions when you see a really good lookin guy with a really fat girl???

2006-11-14 13:41:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My relationship broke up in the middle of September.. She said she didn't want to be a lesbian anymore.. but I know that she is a weak person and the words she used when telling me.. weren't her own. We had been together for almost 3 years.. so I know her vocab. by now.. I love her more than anything and I want her back.. I have faith that she will come back.. but It's of course not a sure thing... should I wait for her? I don't want to date or anything right now atleast.. but I'm stuck. I don't know what I could do to get her back. I need help!

2006-11-14 13:40:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anna's Baby 2

i have been with the mother of my child for 7 years, our child is 4. the relationship has fallen apart. it needs to end

2006-11-14 13:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by brian m 1

he reads my mail, my e-mail, he reads my text messages, he will stop at nothing. I am almost ready to leave him over it . I am so sick of it!!!! I have no privacy. I have tried councelling, and he won't ever go back, and I have tried asking...complaining...crying... threatening. whats more is... he is a computer programmer and he "claims" that no matter how many times I change my password, he can still get inot anything. is he lying about that ??? what should i do....it's obvious he doesnt trust me and never will. we were both unfaithfull to eachother a few years back... so do I have to suffer with no privacy FOREVER now???

2006-11-14 13:34:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 13:27:40 · 7 answers · asked by genefur 1

seperated now but was married 24 yrs he cheated and left........what i want to know is this........after so long married...we had our ups and down but for the most part happy or so i thought....i always kept lines of communication open.......i always tried to talk about everything or anything that might have or been wrong....we have 4 children together ranging in ages from 20 to 10......anyway when this affair happened it really broke my heart when we spoke he said i will do whatever i need to make this up to you well when push came to shove that wasnt the case he wouldnt quit his job you see his job is where the girl he had the affair with began so understand why this was a point for me..anyway after all these years he feels absoulutly no guilt no remorse obviously no respect...how is this possible from someone i spent more then half my life with he lives with this girl now its been 7 months and still my heart hurts..oh by the way he is 42 this girl is 21 and its not money driven

2006-11-14 13:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by kelly h 1

2006-11-14 13:23:31 · 15 answers · asked by missprissy1004 2

I know he is ready to get the chair I just want to give him loving before he leaves.

2006-11-14 13:20:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the top 3 things you look for in a potential husband or wife?

2006-11-14 13:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by JustJane 6

My husband is a truck driver and away from home for long periods of time. We have been married 22yrs and for the past 5 he has not wanted any kind of sex with me. We never have had a real active sex life but now it is non-excistant. (not by my choice). He is always making excuses ie: "If I don't have it, then I don't need it" or "no, the kids are down the hall" and of course.."I'm tired". Is this normal? Am I crazy for putting up with this? I am tired of begging. I'm only in my early 40's and have tried for so long to make this marriage work. Did I mention that he had a 2yr affair 5yrs after we were married and I was pregnant with out 2nd child? So I know he has a sex drive. This has caused me such heart ache. Please give me your honest opinion. I am desperate!

2006-11-14 13:09:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex dumped me through an email a month ago just after she started seeing a therapist due to her unhappy life, father passing away, and low self esteem. At the time I understood her reasoning saying she needed to sort her life out. She asked me not to hate her and that because of her the timing of us sucked, even though she thought we had really good potential. She said she still wanted to be friends and talk cuz thats all she coudl handel. So after a while I agreed cause I cared for her and wanted to be there for her as a friend through this tough time. She sends me an email last week saying she hopes everything with me is giong well and to drop her a line whenever. Then I get in an accident 15 minutes from her house last night. I was in shock when the accident, my first, happened. I knew she was close, I needed a ride and voice, but when I txt her, thats how she likes to communicate, she never replied or called me today to ask me how I was... What should I think of this??

2006-11-14 13:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by cds1666 1

We are at the same college. I'm graduating and she has another year and a half. I am moving a hour and 15 minutes away, we have been dating a couple of months and have a good time with each other. Also, her plans are to possible go overseas after she graduates. What should I do, or tell her? Break up and go our separate ways or stay together??

2006-11-14 12:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1

I’m already engage with my girl friend, but now I’m still jobless, I will only work next year in January.. now she wants me to married her as soon as possible what should I do?

2006-11-14 12:50:25 · 16 answers · asked by juan l 1

why do we have to lose loved ones???

2006-11-14 12:48:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous