We are at the same college. I'm graduating and she has another year and a half. I am moving a hour and 15 minutes away, we have been dating a couple of months and have a good time with each other. Also, her plans are to possible go overseas after she graduates. What should I do, or tell her? Break up and go our separate ways or stay together??
2006-11-14 12:55:57 · 12 answers · asked by Bucky for Prez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If u truely love her then stay, but if u cant see each other together in the future its not really worth it. :'[ And i bet u think u love her but if shes going over seas u wont have her around that much and do u want a family? with her over seas it will be tough on u and the kids. See what i mean. just tell her i dont think were going down the same/not even close togehter path. U like her and nothing againist her just u've gotta look ahead. hope this helps!
2006-11-14 13:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with still dating? Look at the bigger picture. Alot can happen in a year and a half. At your age one month is a long time!
You don't give enough info for me to really get a good grasp. You appear to have a connection, at least from what I can tell. If, in a year and a half, you two are still an item, then question the overseas thing.
Seventy five minuets is not much of a separation. It is a miniature proving ground for your maturity.You can almost tell within the next year how you will do.
2006-11-14 21:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by believer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you see a future with her??? My boyfriend moved 6 hours away after we had been dating for 4 months. We stuck together & have now been together for a year and 7 months. It's up to you to decide if it's worth it. Long distance is hard...it sucks, actually...but, if you like or love a person enough, it might just be worth it.
2006-11-14 20:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do is follow your gut feeling it never lies!!!!!!!!!!!! a great relationship does not mean you have to be up each others world all the time.the most important thing to start a good relationship is to talk every thing out between the two of you.. don't get caught up on what other people say or think.i.ve been married thirty years, it's all about trust and communication. good luck. love is not in the picture because you learn to love people your relationship is very new. [but that's my thoughts] pearl
2006-11-14 21:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you truly care about one another give this relationship a chance to grow and mature. Who knows what the future holds, so don't be so quick to give up on a good deal!! Love is always risky business.
2006-11-14 21:00:21 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can work. An hour and fifteen minutes is nothing.
Heck, some people commute further than that every single day for a job (a job they probably hate).
2006-11-14 21:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you want to do? If you really care about the girl, keep dating. What does she want? Since you even ask the question it seems you don't care that much. You don't want to hurt her and that's good, but be honest. Again, if you really care about her that much you wouldn't even be asking the question.
2006-11-14 21:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by Freshaire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going separate ways, break up...Doesn't sound like there is much there anyways...
2006-11-14 21:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really didn't provide enough information for someone to reasonably offer advice.
2006-11-14 20:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention whether you liked/loved her. If you do, wait. If you don't, break up with her and be done with it...
2006-11-14 20:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by itsallforyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋