What are the top 3 things you look for in a potential husband or wife?
2006-11-14 13:19:29 · 16 answers · asked by JustJane 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WELL I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 29 YRS BUT THE 3 THINGS I LOOKED FOR IN MY HUSBAND WAS
1)IF HE WAS A GODLY PERSON MEANING DID HE TRUST GOD TO GUIDE HIM IN ALLL THINGS
2) DID HE LOVE ME UNCONDITIONALY MEANING I WAS IMPORTANT ENOUGH IN HIS LIFE TO RESCEPT ME AND ME RESPECT HIM
3) IF WE WWERE BEST FRIENDS AS WELL AS LOVERS I CAN TALK TO HIM ABOUT ANYTHING AND KNOW HE WANT JUDGE ME CALL ME A NAME OR GET ANGER FOR THEWAY I FILL
HE HAS ALL THESE QUILTIES AND I AM BLESS GOOD LUCK
2006-11-14 17:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) dependancy---- financaly, emotionally, that sort of thing
2) handyman---- persaonal experience its good to have a "jack of
all trades around the house, and the car too.
3)lover------- when the day is done i want a man that will be able
to help me forget the past due bills, the leak under
the sink and the breaks that need to be put on the
car.
3 things just arent enough to work with, i could list a few more. lol.
2006-11-14 21:27:44 · answer #2 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,, hmm, good question...
I think first would be kindness, toward her family and relatives,
How she handled herself, financially, physically, emotionally, would be second,
And 3 but most important would be laughter and humor and being able to talk about anything, because being married is not all about what you do in bed together.....
Hope this helps some...
good luck
2006-11-14 23:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since it would be husband in my case. If I were looking, which I'm not" I would look for Honesty, someone who treated me as an equal,and someone I would love to be around for the rest of my life...Like I said I'm not looking cuz I already have that man.
2006-11-14 21:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by curious_59 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not near the marrying age, but if I were, I would see if he were: (depending on the circumstances)
-financially stable
-never been married, although divorced may be okay
-if there is a genuine connection between us
2006-11-14 21:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by not in denial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion, honesty, and a great sense of humor.
2006-11-14 21:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same Belief system, honesty, and passion
2006-11-15 01:59:27 · answer #7 · answered by Pamela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractive, sense of humor, compassion.
2006-11-14 21:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Provider, Protector and Dumber than me :)
2006-11-14 21:23:03 · answer #9 · answered by Queen Burn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust, honesty, and respect
2006-11-14 21:21:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋