Marriage & Divorce - 14 November 2006

He said that a good guy will encourage you to have kids!? He said to me deep down inside you know you want them. Does that sound like a whole heap of bull and does that sound manipulating on a women that says that she is not sure on having them?

2006-11-14 16:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by Leigh J 1

We have been together for 6 years and I am now 25. He was laid off from his last job 6 mos after we started dating. He makes me laugh...smile...feel sexy....I have my own job, bought my own house and have tried to keep finances seperate until he was inedpendant(which he is fine with him...but never materializes in the idea of him being productive) ..but this living in limbo is starting to get to me.

I am 10 years younger and when I sacraficed I was unsure of what I wanted...now I am starting to know I want things that the two of us can never have....

I know his illness is legit but I can't stop wanting other things..

Am I wrong to feel this way?

Where do I go from here?

Do I go for what I think I want...or sacrafice what I think I want for what I know makes me feel good??

2006-11-14 16:26:35 · 7 answers · asked by elysialaw 6

Recently I found a profile for my husband on this site, www.fling.com Its a adult personal ad site. He swears he didn't create it and that he was signing up for some online game where they create your character based off what you look like... so he sent this game a picture of himself. Well during the process of signing up for this game there were all these popup ads and he must have accidentally clicked yes to one of them (the fling.com one) and they created an account for him. I want to believe him but it sounds pretty far fetched and I don't want to be that stupid girl who can't see that her husband is a cheater. Has this happened to anyone else or do you know if this is actually possible?
I checked his account with them and it said he hadn't logged on since the account was created so that's why I am wondering. He has also since emailed them and they have removed his ad, but they won't admit to creating the personal ad themselves.

2006-11-14 16:24:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can i do to get my husband financially out of my life, he has left us high and dry provided no financial support but yet he wants to drag out the divorce so drain my financially in legal bills and also wants half and more of all my suff

2006-11-14 16:21:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has everything... EVERYTHING.. personality, intelligence, humor, LOOKS , money, security, and most of all... respect and LOVE for me... he is very faithful and well centered... i can't come up with one flaw of his....
the only thing that ruins our relationship is my insecurity, because now that i have him, im so scared of losing him... im overly jealous and paranoid that all the girls want to take him from me... i cant come up with 1 reason to which any other woman want to take him from me (there are so many sluts and golddiggers nowadays)
should i settle for someone i admire less, or someone a little less desireable? so i can be more confident... weve been going out for 2 years and he wants to get married...

2006-11-14 16:20:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Coming from the stand-point of the awful place you've been, would you rat out a friend or relative that you knew was cheating?

2006-11-14 16:15:20 · 34 answers · asked by єЖтяα ¢яιѕρψ 6

2006-11-14 16:11:12 · 5 answers · asked by Marcello 1

2006-11-14 16:10:10 · 10 answers · asked by Some 1

This happens a number of times. We are both adults and have been a couple for six years. There are times when I feel disrespected, but he just doesn't understand and is not willing to change. Besides ending the relationship, what am I supposed to do?

2006-11-14 16:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why this young girl (25) know that I am married, but everytime purposely let lose her shirt top button whenever she comes to me. Sometimes, some more smiles with me in a seducing way.

2006-11-14 16:07:48 · 23 answers · asked by AH HA 2

Hmm we haven't been dating for a long time... like three months but I'm sure he's the one.. And he's willing to sacrifice everything for me, even get baptised in the greek orthodox church. Is this all too good to be true?

2006-11-14 16:03:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i had a baby out of a 1 yr relationship. We were never married. we were on and off through out the pregnancy. After i had my baby he decided to leave his stable job for a job where he gets paid cash. Im not sure how much his income is now. He says its not much. I want to put him on child support to aviod all the drama but im not sure if thats a good idea. He buys the millk and diapers. clothes here and there. Everytime I need something i have to wait till he gets it. I also work and He doesnt want to pay for baby sittin. i just want to know how will they handle this, if he gets paid cash. and what will be his visitation right when his on child support. He is very aggresive and will not take no for an answer. He threatens me with joint custody. Can he get joint custody if he just asks for it. What is the procedure on that. I really need ur help. thanks!!

2006-11-14 16:01:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 16:00:39 · 7 answers · asked by Jamie F 1

This is HILARIOUS, thought I would share to you folks------> http://youtube.com/watch?v=dqFiZ0iL9QM

2006-11-14 15:56:39 · 6 answers · asked by Pedro Xavier Ramirez 2

Of Marriage of all about him, him him....Gone all the time late at night, I work 7 days a week, I pay for everything!
I'm at my breaking point tonight, I'm ready to give up everything.

2006-11-14 15:52:31 · 17 answers · asked by chedder 1

My wife has gotten into the online game second life. She stays up all night playing it. I ask her to come to bed and she tells me she will be there soon. She comes to be just before dawn. She hides what she is doing online from me (clicks off of it when I come close). I finaly did catch her having vertial sex in the game. I told her how it bothered me and she replied that it is just a game.

Now she has told me she is leaving me. I have been told all her friends thinks she should take our child and leave me. I can only asume that these are online friends because she is online all the time.

Has any one else lost a loved one to an online affair and how did you handle it? I asked her to go to marraige counceling, but she has refused to. I am going. I am learning alot about me and her and our problems. But I am only half of the relationship.

I have even had many suisidal thoughts. My mind is my worst enamy right now. The pain is out wheighing my resources to cope with it.

Help!!!!!

2006-11-14 15:50:13 · 5 answers · asked by Left Alone 1

2006-11-14 15:47:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just feel I want a female companion who will listen to my burble with not strings attached. My spouse is too busy for me and for the most part we do not connect. Is this an okay feeling or am I loosing it?

2006-11-14 15:47:41 · 6 answers · asked by Trinity 4

boy always on computer or tv or busy, yet will not come home until 7am w/others

2006-11-14 15:33:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I called my husband's ex-wife homephone number because I found out that her and my husband is still communicating when my husband is at work. I know because I check on our bill statement account and view it via internet all the incoming and outgoing calls are being updated there every minute so I know whom my husband is calling. Me and my husband argue about still communicating with his ex-wife. Few months ago, when I try to dial my husband's ex wife the phone message says that "The number you dial IS CHECKING FOR TROUBLE please try your call later. I always try to call her number many times I think almost 3 months it says that the phone number is checking for trouble what do you mean by that" if it's disconnected the message would be "The number you dial is permanently disconnected but it's not. What do you think the reason why the number is CHECKING FOR TROUBLE

2006-11-14 15:32:18 · 12 answers · asked by pinaysapinas2004 1

2006-11-14 15:32:09 · 20 answers · asked by darkling 5

Like... maybe twice a week or so? Everything is more exciting in my past relationships when we saw each other only a couple of times a week instead of more often. So what happens when you get married???

2006-11-14 15:28:59 · 12 answers · asked by ftz 6

Not to mention plan for a birthday. Q. Will it ever get to time where I won't have to do any. Like just stay home. Even traveling on that holiday is more expensive and crowded everywhere. Someone please give me an "out". How can I do this without sounding...how can I say...ummmm....like a biotch?

2006-11-14 15:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by louloutee 3

I cheated on her last year. Is this revenge or something else? What should I do?

2006-11-14 15:25:15 · 21 answers · asked by Iamaman 1

2006-11-14 15:21:46 · 22 answers · asked by nishnoush 1

in their wife's life?

2006-11-14 15:18:01 · 14 answers · asked by DC 2

I did it to please him. But now I want out because I feel that I am compromising myself. My husband doesn't care about my feelings.He remains condescending and angry about my decision. I don't know what to do.

2006-11-14 15:16:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you knew a married guy was having sex with other guys, would you tell his wife?

2006-11-14 15:15:42 · 19 answers · asked by J S 1

2006-11-14 15:13:54 · 12 answers · asked by ast5792 1

For over a Year we have been together & life is great! My Husband of 12 yrs. who passed in 2000 (cancer ar age 32) was a gentel soul, just like this man! I'm 51 yrs. pld!

2006-11-14 15:07:13 · 24 answers · asked by trueheart14225 1