For over a Year we have been together & life is great! My Husband of 12 yrs. who passed in 2000 (cancer ar age 32) was a gentel soul, just like this man! I'm 51 yrs. pld!
2006-11-14 15:07:13 · 24 answers · asked by trueheart14225 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as it's okay with both of you, I don't see anything wrong with it. Pls, don' t let some of these comments about it being gross affect your decision.
2006-11-14 15:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by jdhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If life is great then why worry about it? If the two of you are happy together and can communicate then there is nothing wrong with it. If you were a man nobody would give a second thought to you being with a woman 20 years younger than you. I say enjoy.
2006-11-14 23:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number, follow your heart and do what you think is right, or will make you happy. If this man, younger or not is what makes you happy each day, why give all that up just because of a number? Do not give up what might be a good thing just because of a number, think about this long and hard.
2006-11-14 23:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by hofers65 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!! I TOO AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MUCH YOUNGER MAN AND ITS THE BEST EVER!! I LOST MY HUSBAND OF 23 YRS IN 2003, HE WAS 44 AT THE TIME HE PASSED AWAY. NOW MY PARTNER IN LIFE IS A YOUNG MAN OF 34(I'M 59) AND NO MATTER WHAT ANYONE SAYS THERE IS NOTHING WRONG OR BAD ABOUT HAVING THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP!!
2006-11-14 23:13:25 · answer #4 · answered by honestypleeze 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The man you are living with now is around the age of your husband when he passed.
I bet you are subconciously trying to have him back by finding someone that reminds you of him.
As long as your are happy... do whatever you want!
You go girl! Good Luck.
2006-11-14 23:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl if you've got it going on and you can get young guys all the more power to you!!! Age shouldn't matter....it's what you feel inside that counts! If you two love each other who cares how old he is? And don't listen to anybody who tries to say anything otherwise because they're just jealous! Sounds like you've got your groove on!!!! Good for you!!!!
2006-11-14 23:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, when I'm 51 I hope I can get a 31 year old babe to relieve my tensions. Nothing wrong with what you're doing in my opinion.
2006-11-14 23:14:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you happy? I hate to answer your question with a question but the answer lies within your happiness. It's equally important that he is happy and not using you for stability but if that's not the case then keep enjoy life to the fullest because tomorrow is not promised.
2006-11-14 23:16:07 · answer #8 · answered by spanish_fly63 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you :) My husband is 16 years older than me - as long as you love each other that's all that matters!!
2006-11-14 23:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MINE IS 23 YEARS YOUNGER AND WE ARE GOING ON 2 AND 1/2 YEARS. VERY HAPPY AND HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP. YOU ARE JUST FINE. DON'T LISTEN TO OTHERS WHO ARE CLOSED MINDED. LIVE LIFE AND BE HAPPY!
2006-11-14 23:40:22 · answer #10 · answered by openminded 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋