Marriage & Divorce - 14 November 2006

2006-11-14 12:47:58 · 12 answers · asked by Kaiya 1

no attachments - wwm - can this work to spice up your life?

2006-11-14 12:40:05 · 9 answers · asked by sabra 1

My husband and I are both 29 years old and we have been married for two years. Our sex life together has always been very active. We have sex about 15 to 20 times a week. I have absolutely no complaints about this. I have always felt completely satisfied. Lately, however, my husband's sex drive was quadrupled! I can no longer put up with him. He has been like this for almost a month now and I can't find an explanation for his odd behavior. It is like he just can't get enough. The last two days we have had sex a total of 19 times to the point that I have been so sore in my private areas I have not been able to pee normally. It also feels uncomfortable when I walk. My husband is great and I am madly in love with him and I just love to have sex with him but I don't know if I can handle it now or even how to approach him with this problem. I don't want him to get hurt or feel rejected in any way but I am really concerned about our relationship and his recent odd bevavior. Any suggestions?

2006-11-14 12:39:29 · 13 answers · asked by StP 1

Been married for 25 years,4 kids 23,16,15,12 because of certain financial difficulties we got into it, I ve been out of the house for 13 months, kept trying to solve the problem with no luck. Tried fllowers, calling with nice messages...etc, but no luck. We are not broke but we do not make as much money as we used to. I am angry because now I feel after all these years that I am measured with money only.I am thinking very seriuosley of filing a divorce and I need some suggestions

2006-11-14 12:38:32 · 8 answers · asked by Sam H 1

I'm married for 11 years now. Before getting married I used to work as a math teacher in the evening. However, about 8 years ago, I was told by a friend that I could earn much more money if I worked as a hooker in the evening instead of teaching. In fact, after I changed my profession I managed to increase my income in more than 100%. Thats bacause the clients use to pay expensive taxes, especially if you accept to have anal sex wihout any condoms. I have no regrets about it because our life has become much better since then due the extra money I started to bring home. With that money we could finally finish paying our house and even buy a new car. However, my hushand doesn't even suspects the job I've been doing. I know it's not fair to keep lying to him, but I'm afraid of losing him and losing the money. I need both of them. What should I do?

2006-11-14 12:28:03 · 23 answers · asked by Myself 1

My husband and I, along with our two young children, have moved into my parents' home to save money for our own home; this is naturally creating some stress for us. I need some ideas for bringing back that "spark" despite the close quarters and lack of much privacy.

2006-11-14 12:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by wifey 2

Is this a common thing? Why would you want to keep in touch when you are clearly married? Does this mean that you aren't happily married?

2006-11-14 12:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by lc 1

During love-making with my wife, I always put on a loving face expression. A sort of 'I'm in love with you' type of face expression. But I have a problem which I can't control.

As soon as I take her from behind, I can't help putting on a beastie face expression. My tongue hangs out and I sense my face expression changing dramatically into a uncontrollable beast.

I don't know if I do this because she can't see my face but if she ever turned her head and looked at me during that strange moment, she would think I looked like a evil monster. Then when I hear her suggest another position, my face expression changes as quick as a flash into a 'I'm in love' face expression again. Thank god she doesn't know what I've been doing.

Is this normal? And because this is happening behind her back, I'm I having an affair with myself?

What do you think?

2006-11-14 12:08:55 · 17 answers · asked by gulliblepeople 2

may really want an open mariage. does this work for anyone?

2006-11-14 12:06:05 · 17 answers · asked by The Tramp Collector 2

i am the most hated person in muskogee oklahoma-all i did was fall for a married man and yes we got caught. So its over and i am working on my strained relationship with my husband who left me months earlier, and thats how i come to live in the house of this married man. but now i have no friends and it wasnt just me he knew he was married, he came on to me, so why is it i am the only bad person? oh and he and his wife had an "open" relationship, i had permission to sleep with him!! could i help it if he fell in love with me? all she does is sleep all day and is lazy-we had fun and played games and watched movies-so i am the hated person now how do i fix it?

2006-11-14 12:01:08 · 21 answers · asked by nonners1 3

Can I remove my name as a secondary holder from my husband's credit cards, credit union accounts? My husband include me with his Credit Union Account because his salary directly deposit with the account. But I found out that he always loan and a lot of debt and we don't have savings from it. So I want to know if I can call the Credit Union Bank and have my name remove as a secondary holder. Because I didn't know almost from that account he never show me the monthly account summary. I just once saw it this month that we are negative balance and have more debt than savings

2006-11-14 11:58:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

His credit is horrible. I however,pay my credit cards off each month.We do not have credit cards or bank accounts together. My questions is can his bad habits effect my credit or for that matter effect me in any way. I am worried that because we are married the creditors will come after me!

2006-11-14 11:56:32 · 14 answers · asked by boxley4404 2

im getting married &need to go to a class to get my confirmation. i hear its either 6 weeks OR 6 months? how long really is the class?? was it waste of your time?

2006-11-14 11:55:44 · 2 answers · asked by bonnie 5

do u think its fair?

2006-11-14 11:50:48 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 11:48:29 · 36 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5

I've been seeing a guy for 3 mths. He's recently sep'd after 12 yrs (wife cheated/chose her lover). They are both caring for their 2 children and ARE getting div'd.

I've been loving it--he's called each day/included me/treated me to dates. I've told him I love him a few times. He was my b-friend when I was 15 (I'm 40 now/no kids).

When I first called he said he was dating. We've talked about going slow.

I knew he was stressed, but I learned only recently just HOW much. He feels "spread too thin" at times. Some stress recently caught ME by surprise, too. Understandably, I am not THE priority in his life (his kids are), but I'm only human. So I had a couple moderate "tear sessions" recently/nothing *too* "crazy." He cried once with me.

I haven't seen him now for 1 1/2 wks but will tomorrow. We've talked by phone 3 times.

1) Am I "relationship material" to him or "rebound girl?"
2) Was this mini break-up inevitable (or did my tears cause it)?
3) Should I wait? How long?

2006-11-14 11:47:13 · 15 answers · asked by Taramasu2U 3

it is embarrasing because his crack constantly shows, any advice

2006-11-14 11:42:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The parents have not gone to court for custody.

2006-11-14 11:41:26 · 11 answers · asked by patty89m 1

my soon to be ex filed for divorce sept. 25th, by chance I filed for divorce 3 days later. However, My papers were served on her 2 days prior to hers being served on me. The state allows 20 days after date of service to respond to the papers. Will she have to respond to my papers first or will her filing first be an advantage for her? Also I filed in the county in which we were married and lived for 3 years, she filed in the county where we last lived for a total of 7 months. What would be the proper venue? Thanks

2006-11-14 11:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by Scott B 2

Aren't they setting themselves up for failure? Only rich do this?

2006-11-14 11:39:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-14 11:36:22 · 9 answers · asked by kkahn9dodge 5

She's the most wonderful woman a man could ask. She cooks, cleans, and is very caring with me and she takes care of herself, she loves me to death. We've been marrie for only 2 yrs, and we have a little 1 1/2 yr old princess. This is the thing I'm 28 and I'm a business owner ( Insurance Company ) which I want to growth and it seems that she's holding me back, (at least that's the way I see it ) so I lost interest in a relationship. I KNOW I KNOW I should of thought about this before I got marrie, but it's too late. I love my little princess and I will always be by her side. I know that if I keep this relationship I'm just going to hurt her by not paying attention to her or by not being home most of the day. But then I'm afraid that I'm just going to get old and alone. Which way should I go??

2006-11-14 11:34:51 · 15 answers · asked by Shadow 4

my in-laws are frying in to visit for the holidays thanksgiving....we don't get along so we made resevations to a nice restaurant...what do i talk about to keep the 2 hours from hell lite....

2006-11-14 11:32:59 · 8 answers · asked by non-curious 2

I'm married for 11 years now. Before getting married I used to work as a math teacher in the evening. However, about 8 years ago, I was told by a friend that I could earn much more money if I worked as a hooker in the evening instead of teaching. In fact, after I changed my profession I managed to increase my income in more than 100%. Thats bacause the clients use to pay expensive taxes, especially if you accept to have anal sex wihout any condoms. I have no regrets about it because our life has become much better since then due the extra money I started to bring home. With that money we could finally finish paying our house and even buy a new car. However, my hushand doesn't even suspects the job I've been doing. I know it's not fair to keep lying to him, but I'm afraid of losing him and losing the money. I need both of them. What should I do?

2006-11-14 11:32:44 · 51 answers · asked by Myself 1

I have a girl friend who is having a problem. Her boyfriend (they are both adults) had to move across the country for work. He asked her to go with him. After much discussion she agreed. The agreement was that they would continue with their relationship. Now they live together and he is a cold fish. She is devastated. She wants to leave and feels he should pay her moving expenses. She can't afford to move. Should he pay?

2006-11-14 11:32:14 · 10 answers · asked by Ade 6

Well .. where can i start.. i have been on here before talking about my issue's about my husband was very emotional and verbal abuse. In the relationship So i couldn't take it no more.But i wasn't sure to leave him because i was having alot of HOPE he will change or aleast care to fix our marriage, but what really got worst . is when his mother and his family got to much involed in our marriage. He such a "Mother's boy" that when we fight, he leave's me without money, take the keys from the SUV and walk's out on me leaving me with the children alone. So he can go to his mother's house because he is very anger at me.So i have forgive him alot. The bad thing of myself I have look for him to come back to me. Thats where i felt i was stupid for doing that, cause he never told me he was sorry of nothing. So now we are getting divorce. our apartment is all lonely and he went back living with his mother's and family. So i did too.. So now he doesn't pay child support or nothing

2006-11-14 11:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

She says its over but still comes around and even stays the night with me but she keeps telling me she is not ready to commit back to this relationship

2006-11-14 11:25:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My baby brother just got deployed to Iraq for the second time. While he was home he met a girl and they got engaged. He is leaving for Iraq in early December and they plan on getting hitched before he leaves. I was just now at the store and I saw her getting out of a car. When I looked to see who was in the car it was a guy. It could have been a friend or cousin or something like that so I have no intention of shooting my mouth off about her being a cheater without any evidence. How (if at all) should I go about telling him to check it out or that I saw what I saw? I love him very much and don't want to see him hurt. I have met her once and she seems like a total sweetheart....but the heart can indeed be deceitful above all things.

2006-11-14 11:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by B. CuzICan 1

I feel that my children aren't safe with my wifes new b/f i no nothing about him she won't even let me meet him not that i want to all i no is the frist name and where he is from do i have the right to take them we are separate that's it this guy came from no where it is my understanding that he has been incarcerated for two years that brings concern as a father i can care less who she sleeps with my concern are my babys being jealous not by far there are no papers involved we are not even legally seperated

2006-11-14 11:18:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to leave my husband and transfer to another State to start my life there. I know I'm married to my husband and it's an adultery to remarry; but I just want to leave him to find my future. I don't want to remarry; I just want to have a brighter future. My husband don't have plan for the two of us. He had already five grown up kids from his first ex-wife. I don't see anything that he had plans for me. He bought a land for his grown up kids, saves money for his grown children, coz he told me that they were black american and no future in this world and me I have a lot of future because I'm Asian. We don't have yet kids; I'm not sure if he want baby from me. Of course, a woman want to have a baby of her own. But as if I'm not married and don't have husband. He much care for his grown up kids ages 29 to 33 years old and grandchildren. He also arguing me to work; because he wants me to contribute to the expenses to pay the bills. My husbands grown up kids always asking for money

2006-11-14 11:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous