Is this a common thing? Why would you want to keep in touch when you are clearly married? Does this mean that you aren't happily married?
2006-11-14 12:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by lc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sometimes there are children involved. so you have to pretend that everything is OK. others want to throw what they have now in their faces. (lol)
2006-11-14 12:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my new husband and my ex-husband some times work together they are contractors.Talk about weird.One time they were doing a job way far away.My ex rented a motel room with two beds in it.My new husband and I slept in one bed,the ex slept in the other.Talk about strange.I can say that I am happily married to my new husband.
2006-11-14 21:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by star_utsf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can keep in touch with a ex and be happily married. My ex boyfiend and i keep in touch he is married and I am too. my hubby is fine with it . we keep in touch by email. he over in Iraq , that is why i keep in touch. I never know when something might happen to him. we were high school sweethearts yes we are just friends.
2006-11-14 21:05:54 · answer #3 · answered by Krissy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the married person and the ex are just good friends...maybe they were better friends than they were a couple...I wouldn't jump to conclusions unless there are some definite signs of something going on....don't assume ANYTHING
2006-11-14 20:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by mjboog2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. me and my ex were friends for 25 years and lovers for only a year. I am now in a great relationship but still talk to my ex once or so a month. I would never date him again but we are good friends. I have two exes like this and one has a wifeand she had a problem to begin with but once she got to know me and saw me as part of the family she is cool about it. I think of one as a brother now that we are just friends.
PS his kids and mine are best friends also and call each other parents uncle or aunt
2006-11-14 20:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by G L 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My wife has to keep in touch to coordinate my step-son going over to his house and to tell him to pay his child support. He currently owes about 6 month's worth. He's a real winner.
2006-11-14 20:25:20 · answer #6 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
because we have children together, I'm not married anymore
but most people understand that,he had a an ex wife,they had children together so they had to keep in touch,if there's no children involved , I see no reason to keep in touch with an ex
2006-11-14 20:24:35 · answer #7 · answered by msalb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you've moved on doesn't automatically make it so that you don't love the other person still. I would still be with all of my old girlfriends except one... truly. You're happy with your significant other, you just still love the other person, and that's cool... just don't cheat on them or anything, and keep the contact as minimal as you can to avoid things like that
2006-11-14 20:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by MEGAWALRUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, not in touch with any of the ex's. They're history, why bother keeping in touch?
2006-11-14 20:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex called me 2yrs after our divorce and told me she made a mistake and wanted to get back together. I told her no and we never spoke again I'm just one of those people that never look back
2006-11-14 20:24:59 · answer #10 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My x stayed in contact with me while our kids were little. Once they were grown and gone, I saw no reason to stay in contact with him at all.
As for the ones out there that do stay in contact with the x , with or without kids, take my advise.....do not talk to your x behind the backs of your partner. You have something to say to the x...do it right in front of your partner! Any kids for visitation to be picked up or dropped off or to go there and visit the kids, any contact with your x...TAKE YOUR PARTNER WITH YOU!!!!!
2006-11-14 20:31:15 · answer #11 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋