Been married for 25 years,4 kids 23,16,15,12 because of certain financial difficulties we got into it, I ve been out of the house for 13 months, kept trying to solve the problem with no luck. Tried fllowers, calling with nice messages...etc, but no luck. We are not broke but we do not make as much money as we used to. I am angry because now I feel after all these years that I am measured with money only.I am thinking very seriuosley of filing a divorce and I need some suggestions
2006-11-14 12:38:32 · 8 answers · asked by Sam H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try to talk to her one more time, go there personally, tell her what's in your heart, and tell her u need to be with her, and if you can't have your family back, than u need to move on with life, because your not happy being alone. and wait for her response. if she isn't interested than there's no choice but to file for divorce and move on and start over again. but confront her first with how u are feeling, before u file for divorce.
2006-11-14 12:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25 years its a long time you really need to work a little harder to save that marriage .do something for her that you know she would like. It could be something you never done for her.it doesn't have to be expensive.let me give you a tip.I've been a wife for 8 yrs and sometimes my husband do little things for me that are more important than going out and getting expensive gifts. Maybe do something that will involve your kids too. good luck! if you realy love her you will win her over.
2006-11-14 21:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by melissa p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hate to say it my friend but after a year of separation, with no real contact with her for 13 months, i would say that she most likely has a new beau on the side and has no intentions of letting you back into her life. the fact that she has delayed taking any legal action is to make it appear that you abandoned them. in Canada a couple have to be separated for one year before divorce can be granted. i hate to be the barer of bad news but expect to be served any day.
2006-11-14 21:13:31 · answer #3 · answered by redsyoungstud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try going to counselling with her. If that does not work, then try filing for legal separation first. Before making a decision, ask you kids how they feel about the situation. :-)
2006-11-14 20:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, file for divorce.
2006-11-15 03:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has she agreed to couciling? I'd start there. If she's not willing move on to the divorce lawyer.
2006-11-14 20:43:24 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what women say, they really do measure men by the money we make. Believe me, I am pretty close to being in your boat.
2006-11-14 20:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's getting PENIS somewhere else. It's time to move on.
2006-11-14 23:27:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋