2006-11-14 12:47:58 · 12 answers · asked by Kaiya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its a man thing my wife watches it with me sometimes i do not watch a lot the kids are all around i know you might think this bull but i can still learn new things on it to please my wife for me that is all i like to watch porn it is not a thing to get me turned on i take one look at her and she gets me tuned on mybe that is why men watch it
2006-11-14 13:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by dave m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some types of porn can be very erotic and are actually more enjoyable if you watch it with him. Maybe there are certain things you might want to try out together. That's of course up to you. Sometimes we're just curious about sex. I know I was but it can get to be boring. The only suggestion I would make is to see what kind of porn it is. They're not all healthy or legal. But try to keep an open mind about it. You can also just ask your husband why he finds it so interesting and don't judge him automatically without knowing anything about it. And remember, you don't exactly know how something is until you have experienced it for yourself.
2006-11-14 13:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I will not say that this generation is only for married men. There are several women that enjoy porn just like men do. The percentage of men may do it more than women, but do not just mention men.
I enjoy porn as a man, and I do not see anything wrong with it, as long as you are not dealing with anyone under 21.
I know some people will disagree with me on this statement, but you asked for a honest answer, this is my honest answer.
2006-11-14 16:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all married men do and not all men who do are married and not all who are into porn are men.
Besides that, you're spot on in your reasoning...
personally, I was far more into porn when I was single, because that's the kind of guys I hung out with....now, we're all married anf got better things to do with our lives...
2006-11-14 14:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is very common for married men to look at porn, so yes, it is "normal".
Why do they do it?
For some guys, it's because their wife won't have sex with them as often as she used to
For instance, she used to have sex with him daily when they were engaged, cut it down to weekly after the wedding, then cut him off entirely when pregnant with their first kid and then twice a year after the first kid is born.
The man still has the same sex drive he did before marrage, and he doesn't want to get a mistress or go to a prostitute, so he uses porn to make up the difference.
Also, some men have unusual sexual fetishes that their wife does NOT share (bondage, S & M, watersports ect) and he doesn't want to make his wife do stuff she doesn't want to do, so he has regular sex with her, and fulfills his fantasies with porn.
Bottom line, many men use pornography to save marrages with women they are no longer sexually compatible with - so they can stay with her, and still find sexual fulfillment.
2006-11-14 13:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why do some women complain about men watching porn?
Is that supposed to make them "better" than people who do?
Grow up.
2006-11-14 13:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's not ABnormal. Men are totally different than women. They are visual creatures, they need erotica to stimulate them at times. They enjoy looking at beautiful women. It doesn't mean they don't want YOU, they just get aroused by viewing sexual activity of others.
If you aren't in the mood to strip tease or wear some sexy outfit, your husband may need to find that stimulation by watching a porn flick.
You should try watching it with him. You will be very, very, surprised what it will do for you, also, and especially your sex life.
2006-11-14 12:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 4⤊ 3⤋
I guess they are not getting what they need at home. Or maybe they will not tell you what they really want because they think its wrong or dirty. they are not brought up thinking what you do with your spouse or partner is OK. who knows when you find out let me know!!!
2006-11-14 12:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by christine z 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i think its normal but this is what some guys do i feel vilated when i catch him, i ask myself is he not happy with me.he says iam happy with you,iam just looking.i ask why you can,t just look at me,he says its nothing iam just looking.
2006-11-14 12:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by annjilena 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Does he need to go there for relief? Is his partner fulfilling his desires and hers? It isn't normal and shouldn't be accepted as such. Get yourselves into therapy. It may sound odd, but it worked wonders in my marriage.
2006-11-14 12:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by cynical 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋