My ex dumped me through an email a month ago just after she started seeing a therapist due to her unhappy life, father passing away, and low self esteem. At the time I understood her reasoning saying she needed to sort her life out. She asked me not to hate her and that because of her the timing of us sucked, even though she thought we had really good potential. She said she still wanted to be friends and talk cuz thats all she coudl handel. So after a while I agreed cause I cared for her and wanted to be there for her as a friend through this tough time. She sends me an email last week saying she hopes everything with me is giong well and to drop her a line whenever. Then I get in an accident 15 minutes from her house last night. I was in shock when the accident, my first, happened. I knew she was close, I needed a ride and voice, but when I txt her, thats how she likes to communicate, she never replied or called me today to ask me how I was... What should I think of this??
2006-11-14 13:07:12 · 10 answers · asked by cds1666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Texting is NOT TALKING if you really want to solve anything then face to face is only way to go.
It is too damn easy to hide behind txts, if you both want to make a go or one wants to drop out then face to face is only way......
Go around visit her to talk,what's the worse scenario, she slams door in ya face.then you have your final answer....♥
2006-11-14 13:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe her phone is off. . .
Some people are just takers, not givers. People that have self-esteem and depression problems can get stuck in their own world of problems and not notice anyone elses, even if they are as obvious as an accident. My ex-fiancee was that way. Everything was about him and his problems, I was always there to help and support him. But then when I had a problem, he couldn't be there for me, ever. Funny, he's a texter too.
2006-11-14 13:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by arzachel81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, get a clue. She dumped you via email. She's not interested in you no matter what you thought you read or heard. If she was, she would have at least faced you. Everything else said is BS she used not to hurt your feelings.
She didn't respond because she probably thought you were faking the accident to get her attention.
Move on.
2006-11-14 13:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's letting you down easy by communicating with you, she loves you but does not love you,, and wants you to remain being her friend so she can use you when she needs to, but she will never be there for you when you need her. sorry she used you when she needed you, instead of working on building a life, she cut and ran, her choice, her reason well she did not see spending the rest of her life with you, she is just trying to be nice to u, because she may need you at a later date.
2006-11-14 13:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she did not receive the txt? I would talk to her directly before you jump to conclusions -- I did that recently and ended up feeling like an idiot. Good luck and I hope you are ok.
2006-11-14 13:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on! sounds like she has so much baggage that you dont deserve! and it sounds like she is a coward because she couldnt even face you to break up with you. SO move on to better and dont look back!
2006-11-14 13:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by delete this profile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st I would want to find out if she hasher phone and it is working. Then if it was I would tell her to go to Hell. If it wan't working or whatever then yo have to chalk it up to woops!
Good luck and maybe find someone for you who is not so messed up.
2006-11-14 13:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Big Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cut her from ur life man she dont deserve u
2006-11-14 13:37:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2006-11-14 13:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by sdbrian92108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MABY SHE HAS A REASON HOW ABOUT ASKING HER WHATS UP
2006-11-14 13:10:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋