Approximately 50% of people cheat(equal for men and women), which means that 1 of the 2 spouses will cheat. With the divorce rates around 50%, that means half of people stay with a cheater. Are you the cheater or the one who gets cheated on? Are the one who stays or the one who leaves if you get cheated on?
2006-11-14 10:46:54 · 28 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Who else thinks 'Hmm' should be a psychologist, instead of a secretary since she knows so much. They would probably let you skip all 8 years of school. But then you would probably learn, that people who tell other people they are insecure are the ones who are actually insecure within themselves.
2006-11-14 11:08:22 · update #1
no i have never cheated there are stil good people out here! don't give up hope
2006-11-14 11:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you just make this up? honestly where are you getting your facts from because first that isnt true. I have never cheated nor have I ever been cheated on I have hurt people so I know that I have never been cheated on because there would be no reason for them not to tell me to then hurt me because of how much I have hurt them. I think you made this up and its probably because you are the cheater or you always get cheated on. At that point there is something wrong with you and you obviously dont believe in the love you have with others. learn to trust people and they will do the same. Learn how to work hard for your relationship and dont give so easily. And I dont believe that its equal as far as statistics goes I have heard that women cheat more than men do. I read that somewhere. Therefore I think you are full of shi.t and you either have insecurities or nope thats about it your insecure.
2006-11-14 10:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
I am getting out of a divorce that my husband cheated on me. it is so sad that this is true that 50% of all persons that get married are doomed to be divorced and then then 50% of those people are going to be married again which 15% of those will again get divorced.
It is said that all of this is true and that if you are in a relationship that you are unhappy although it may hurt your partner it is better to get out of the relationship then to make both of you miserable and then chance cheating on the other person.
so if you are unhappy divorce or leave don't stick around so you end up hurting this person that you once loved.
2006-11-14 11:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by rainamem 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes wife cheated on me. There is no way really to explain how it feels. Honestly its the worst feeling on earth, first it's denial, then its anger and then its pain. I couldn't believe it. when it really hit me I did nothing but cry for like 3 days. Also what hurts about being cheated on is that you start thinking something is wrong with you yourself to make this person turn to someone else. You feel like crap when you find out. You feel betrayed, hurt, lied to, and feel like everything you had with that person was a lie. I didn't go out and cheat, what would the point of that be.
Of course I forgave her, but not for her sake, for me. Its good to forgive, it's part of the healing process. So if you're thinking of cheating, and you're married....Don't do it. Please. For the sake of your spouse. Don't do it.
2006-11-14 11:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my ex cheated on me, when i first found out, i was devistated, and felt as if it were the end of the world, the revelation of his affair left me feeling very diminished and devalued. and he appeared to be feeling victorious, and happy with his life. to add insult to the injury he bashed me and left my heart even more fragile. refused to even talk it over or go to counciling. i had stayed with him even though he emotionally abused me, and was controlling, finally when i confronted him about the way he had been treating me he wanted a divorce, what i did not know than that he had been seeing her for awhile, and that might have been the reason he treated me so badly. i decided that it was smarter to get a divorce, and move on, as i knew it would have been impossibble to ever forget it, and i knew that if i did go back to him, that he passed me over for her once, and would do it again the minute any problems occured in the marriage again.
2006-11-14 11:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat, but I have been cheated on by my ex-husband
and ad ex boyfriend I was with for 10 yrs
it's not a good feeling
2006-11-14 12:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by msalb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't cheat and as far as I know, my husband doesn't cheat either. Remember, there's two sides to the coin and we are probably in the other 50% who don't cheat.
2006-11-14 10:59:14 · answer #7 · answered by jdhs 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not! I am from an age when this
was totally unacceptable; if you no longer
luv someone, then you tell them, and do it
right, but to sleep w/ another person, is
the height of disrespect; it is morally disgusting,
esp. if you have been married ' in the Church
before God, my husband left me for ahother
women, and I was totally degraded, and
humiliated, it is a 'psychological beating' but
as time went by I recovered, and I am now
happily married to a great guy, oh, my ex-
well, he's now alone and miserable, as she
cheated on him.!
2006-11-14 10:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jaymagiclady 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I wont cheat. Ive been cheated on and to me its the worst pain I ever felt . Most definately I would leave.
2006-11-14 10:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Felicia R 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband has cheated on me, but it was two years ago an we had a baby an everything has been great since... But i know it hurts an even though its been 2 years ago an he's been great now im always wondering if it'll ever happen again...
2006-11-14 10:51:14 · answer #10 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i have been with my husband for 7 years now and have never cheated on him and i don't think that he has cheated on me. just recently we moved to a nother state to help my husbands mom because she just found out that her husband of 15 years has been cheating on her for there hole marriage. well, we sold our house and my husband quit his job so that we could help her out and you know what... that Bi**h went back to him!! she totally messed up our lives and we will never try to help someone out again. i really don't understand why people stay with their cheating spouse, i really don't get it!!
2006-11-14 12:43:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋