You all know the phrase.... The one that goes something like this.......
It's not that I don't love you, I'm just not "in love" w/ u ! WTH does this mean and do they think this actually makes things better or easier? That is the biggest bunch of crock I've ever heard!!
2006-11-14 10:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by ~B~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah I agree...it is what is written between the lines...like "I found this hot chick that I really wanna jump in the sack with and you are getting in my way" or "I need more sex and we just do not have sex like we used to anymore" or "I wanna do what I wanna do when I wanna do it like when I was single and you are a weight around my neck" Annyyyyyyy number of reasons but it's not really that they do not love you anymore...to me is did they ever really love you in the first place and do they even know the meaning of the word love?
Yep it is a big bunch of poo!
2006-11-14 10:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that it is a bunch of crock. You can love someone and not be "in love" with them. He is, yes, telling you that it's over. But if he didn't care about you, he wouldn't have said this... he would've used some meaner way of saying it. What I gather that he means.. could be that he has enjoyed the time that he has spent with you, will take memories from there, wishes you the best in life, but he still hasn't found what he's lookin' for.. as in a completely compatible romantic mate, as in a soul mate, as in the person who gives him butterflies in his stomach and makes him ache to be with you all the time... I'm sorry... I feel he's not trying to hurt you, but by your anger in the question, I'm guessing you would've been crushed no matter what he said.
Take your time, and move on... find your own compatible soul mate.. he's taking the initiative to get out of a comfortable relationship to find an amazing relationship. You should do the same. Best of luck!
2006-11-14 12:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by River 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly. Guys are really stupid. They dont have the slightest idea or the conjones to manly break off a relationship with a girl. So they say something stupid that they believe wont break the girls heart and usually have no idea what theyre saying or doing. Most have no idea what love is or means, but they just got to say something stupid and most girls see right thru it and begin to realize just how inconsiderate and idiotic this guy really is.
2006-11-14 10:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that when it comes to ending a relationship, guys are cowards. Make it easy for him and move on, OR make him sweat it out by pretending you didnot hear. The former option is better cos you quit with your dignity and LIFE GOES ON !!!
2006-11-14 10:31:11 · answer #4 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a reaction to the phrase women use "are you in love with me or do you just love me? to love someone means that you have feelings for that person but it leaves the (out clause)exclusivity " but I'm not in love with you translation: my feelings for you are not solely devoted to you . In love: translation: my whole heart and soul, is devoted to you. aka commitment.They think leaving the"in" part off lets them off the hook, makes it easier, lessens the guilt they have.. .
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2016-11-29 03:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well atleast he cares for you! It's true when one says that they love you as a person, but to be totally in love with you is a different feeling. Like my man now... I love him because we've spent so many years together but all the BS that we've been through and what he has put me through killed our relationship....
2006-11-14 10:32:50 · answer #7 · answered by Destinee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL I don't think it's meant to actually make us feel better, but to make themselves feel better about what they are doing. It's basically a cop out but I guess it's better than them just being like " It's over"
2006-11-14 10:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by love_n_hate84 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree. It's just their way of letting you down easy. Some women also use this line for the same purpose.
2006-11-14 10:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by jdhs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he doesnt like you but he's trying to make it seem like it's not your fault, to be nicer. He might be WANTING you to explode in anger, it sure makes the breakup easier than crying.
2006-11-14 10:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋