when a married woman is sneaking phone calls to a nother married man?

Question

would you consider this cheatin , she says they are just friends, it went on for over a month , ive moved out ( didnt want to move kids

Answer 1

never good...it's not the act of the phone calls that was deceptive but the 'sneaking' s you put it. It implies that she herself felt their was something wrong witht he situation. Had she not she would have told you about the phone calls. But remember this....Men cheat for sex, and women cheat for romance. Women will have emotional affairs or crushes far more often than they will actually hav physical affairs. If phone calls is as far as it went and you want to save your marriage......here's a big sign that she feels something is missing.

Answer 2

Let her know she's setting a standard. Turn it around, ask if she would be okay with it if it were you talking on the phone to another woman married or unmarried. It's one step closer to feeling comfortable with the next level of a relationship outside the marriage. I think you should have ask her to leave the comfort of your home, and left the kids. Put her out there on her own for a few weeks and she how she fares. You can always find child care and be there for the kids each evening. What in the world was she talking about for a month? She's in a good spot right now, she has the kids, the house and whoever......is she asking you to come home...telling you she loves and misses you....won't ever make this mistake again???? These are the thoughts of a woman who is willing to admit it was a stupid mistake and wants the life she had with you again. Good luck

Answer 3

I am not a married woman, but I do live with someone. This someone was somebody very dear to me until I started to get to know him better. He is a liar, a loser, a nobody. He has done so much to me that I lost respect for him. I have been seen someone else on the side, and yes, we talk on the phone all of the time; however, the guy who I live with still can't figure out about my affair. I have been telling him to leave, that I don't care about him, but he won't. I am sorry that you had to leave, but you did the right thing because for sure these two had something going. Your wife should of been more honest and at least let you know.

Answer 4

i could casually ask him if there are any issues on your marriage which you do no longer be conscious of roughly, or is there something you're doing incorrect that could dissatisfied him. while he says no, blast him and ask him why he's having an affair, whether this is actual or emotional, would not count it remains an affair. Sorry yet as quickly as you have been cheated on it makes you mad that adult men think of that lady are so stupid they are able to't decide some thing is going on. do no longer backtrack, if he threatens to circulate away " tell him he understands the handle and to deliver money because of the fact he will desire lots to get out of this mess".

Answer 5

The key word in there is "sneaking"
yeah it is considered cheating, both are "sneaking" phone calls between each other. Has to be cheating otherwise if not, then why are they "sneaking" in the first place??

Answer 6

Yep I would consider that cheating not because of the phone calls but because they may be talking about meeting somewhere else. I am sorry to hear that you and your kids are going through this. If people would take the welfare of the kids into consideration then there would be a heck of a lot less cheating going on!

Answer 7

You must think it was or you wouldn't have left. but what about your kids? IF it was only phone calls, even if it was phone sex that seems like a very forgivable sin. and you can not catch Aids from the phone. I bet there must be other things going on phone sex seems a very petty reason to leave your kids. GO HOME DUDE! take care of your kids!!! ask your wife to go to counseling with you. GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 8

If she's sneaking then there's something to hide. If her husband does not know and would not agree to it then yep, that's a cheating wife!

Sneaking implies trying to get away with something. If it continued she would possibly "sneak" and start meeting this person and on and on.

Answer 9

Sneaking in a marriage is not good.
If everything was on the up and up she should be able to talk to the person with you right next to her.

Answer 10

If they were just friends they wouldn't be sneaking around. When you have nothing to hide, you hide nothing. She's full of sh*t. Yes I consider that cheating.