I feel that my children aren't safe with my wifes new b/f i no nothing about him she won't even let me meet him not that i want to all i no is the frist name and where he is from do i have the right to take them?
2006-11-14 10:53:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. You cannot take the children from your ex-wife's home without a court order. And you don't seem to have any proof that they are unsafe. It sounds like you are jealous of your ex-wife's new boyfriend. Since you don't know anymore than his first name and where he is from, you have no logical reason to think that your children are not safe.
2006-11-14 10:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because she is your ex doesn't mean that she doesn't have the right to have adult realtionships just because you have children together. The only way the kids can be removed form her care is if they are in any imminant danger and that has to be proven in a court of law. You can't just take them based on "some guy" living with her. If you think that there is something "fishy" going on then you should act, if not, don't be a jerk and let the thought of revenge cloud your judgement.
2006-11-14 19:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by Easter Bunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way legally. You can petition the courts for a hearing on remodification of child custody to see if you can gain custody but if a feeling is all youve got, the courts willreject your claim. You will have to have concrete proof that the kids are in a hostile and dangerous environment, meaning that there is drugs or child abuse going on. This will have to be documented by police reports or medicalreports showing actual abuse has occured. Even kids testimony will backfire as it will be considered that they were coached by you without real actual proof. Sorry, wish I had a better answer for you but its the law. Good luck
2006-11-14 19:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely you can. Get an attorney and go back to court. Get your kids out of a home that has some "guy" there sleeping with their mother. And don't you do the same thing. Good luck, do it for your kids and when they are grown they will love and respect you.
2006-11-14 18:57:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're being way too paranoid (based upon the total lack of evidence).
Can you take them? Hmm. What does the court order say?
If you take them, you might be risking some jail time for "contempt of court" at the minimum.
2006-11-14 18:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
choose your battles wisely. just because you don't know anything about him doesn't mean he's feeding your kids posion and letting them watch porn. You trusted thier mom enough to have kids with her, let her be a mom and be a vigilant dad... but she's going to have other boyfriends and she can pick whomever she wants to fill that role, let's hope she puts the kids first in that regard.
Explain to her you would like to meet him, explain why and be nice about it. You have a long way to go with this woman, like it or not. Pace yourself.
2006-11-14 19:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It is her business. Not to sound mean or cold but that is how it is. If your children show up with bruises, then that is another story.
2006-11-14 19:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need something to back that up.....contact Child and Family Services and run your concerns by them.....are you being jealous?
2006-11-14 18:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by habemf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run a check and see if he is on a predator list for children? then see if he been in jail your children will tell u!
2006-11-14 19:28:49 · answer #9 · answered by God's chosen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how do you know he's not safe if you know nothing about him?
2006-11-14 18:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋