What the hell is that? He only wears it when i ask him to. What to do . is this a clear sign of non committment? :(
2006-11-14 04:07:16 · 28 answers · asked by chitchat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He must really be committed to your marriage. Good luck working on your marriage cuz you're working alone.
2006-11-14 04:09:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure he may get hit on extra without his ring. yet with or without the ring, people nonetheless cheat. hence that is the affection and trust for one yet another that keeps a wedding ceremony going. and many times adult adult males favor to make sure in the journey that they nonetheless were given their mojo. If it bothers you he's not wearing it, have a verbal substitute with him. perhaps he remains hurting. For some people it takes a lengthy time period to get over it. He may experience what's the use to placed in this ring, even as the vows are damaged. The trust replaced into lost. yet when he loves you he will come round. because you're exhibiting you nonetheless favor the marriage to artwork.
2016-11-29 03:26:25 · answer #2 · answered by cheathem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had cheated on me and I took him back and asked him to wear his wedding ring and he didn't I too would be upset. He needs to do everything within his power to make this work and if he know this is important to you then he should do this for you.
Wearing a wedding band won't stop the women from coming on to your husband, for some women, it really seems to add fuel to the fire.
2006-11-14 04:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be battling over the symbolism of the ring for the rest of your life. He obviously does not want to submit to your need for arbitrary tests of his love and committment. He already SHOWED you his level of committment by screwing around on you. What do you want from him? - whatever it is, he's not willing to give it on your terms.
2006-11-14 04:12:14 · answer #4 · answered by bdenton2k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU are working on the relationship ALONE
This is serious -- he does NOT want to wear his ring -- a CLEAR sign he is NOT committed to the process of trying to reconcile.
2006-11-14 04:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by sglmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on you and you want him back, and he wants you back, then he is to become your personal slave. If you say wear the ring, he should wear it, and you should pop in on him to be sure he is. If he is not willing to play by the new rules, he can leave. I think I know what his choice will be.
2006-11-14 04:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, oh good. And you are still married to this guy why??????? He doesn't want to be married --- to you or any one else --- he's a baby. The question is, why would you want to stay with this guy? Cheating is the ultimate betrayal... sharing one's body and soul with another while still married is just revolting.... a deal breaker. If you are not in counseling, get in. If it's not working, get out... You asked....
2006-11-14 04:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whatever when he is ready ....hunny kick his *** out the door not only did he sleep with another girl but he don't respect you
you can do better then that you need a real man one that want you and only you and as for the ring it should have never come off it he cared for you
2006-11-14 04:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH YAH......look, you should be with someone who is proud to wear his wedding ring. You deserve better than that!!
He should be making amends with you!!
Please, look at what works for you....sounds like to me your husband is playing it his way...give him an ultimatum and then stick with it!!!
My question is why are you still with the guy??
2006-11-14 04:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When HE'S ready??? he should be the one bending over backwards to make the marriage work. He should be the one showing his true commitment to the marriage.
2006-11-14 04:09:35 · answer #10 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋