About a year ago I met a bipolar woman who is divorced with three kids. I am 11 years younger than her and to start with she was so sweet, she told me straight away she was bipolar, had been abused when she was younger and she told me a lot of stories about her sexual adventures since her divorce. She told me she had been married for 14 years and her husband was very mentally abusive to her.
After a few months she would tell me stories about how the men she would see would become obsessed with her through no fault of her own. I ignored this until recent events got me thinking, she started to tell me about the amount of blokes she was seeing and she knew I liked her in that way, also I met her 3 kids and they were nice although she insists they have mental problems too. Since contact has been cut I find myself becoming a bit obsessed with her, which got me thinking, is it her that is abusive to the people in her life and she likes to play sick games. What do you think?
2006-11-14 00:42:31 · 8 answers · asked by bob n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Run and don't look back, why would you even put yourself i a position of being involved in a relationship with some one with so many issues. You know we usually pick those who are as sick as we are. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-14 00:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, If I were you I would run away from her as fast as I could and never look back again. If you stay in this kind of relationship you will only be setting yourself up for more disappointment and heartbreak. This is a no win situation......either she will classify you as another obsessed bloke in her life or an abuser. Either way it spells disaster for you...get out now before she f**ks your head and heart up!!!! I know a guy that dated a manic/depressive woman and she tried to commit suicide 3 times while he was at work with no success at each attempt, got to a point where he was afraid to go to work because he didn't want to come home one day and find her dead, so one day he finally left her but it F**ked him up for quite a long time!!!!
Life gives us enough bulls**t to deal with, you don't need the additional hassles which can be avoided.
2006-11-14 09:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - we have a self proclaimed mental patient. Who has a bit of a strange past...which is normal for any mental patient.
From what you have said..it doesn't sound like being bipolar is her only problem...she may be a bit of a con-artist. She sounds like she is "tricking" you if you will...not for money...or for anything materialistic...but for your love...she is "conning" you (if you will) into loving her...and it is working rather well. Now you are feeling a bit obsessed - which probably isn't typical of you - maybe you are feeling a bit like you "can't live without her".
I am sure she is a very nice person and probably doesn't have a mean bone in her body...but she may turn you crazy if you don't watch out. Just remember...you are allowed to love anyone you want...but don't put yourself or any other loved ones in danger because of this person. It is okay to love someone and NOT be with them...
2006-11-14 09:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by ladydrea2918 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably abased, however bipolar people even with medicine can be mentally, and verbally abusive in a sneaky kind of way. And her saying her children are ill to, she probably honestly thinks that. May not be the case for real, but in her head they are.
2006-11-14 08:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is probably the one who is abusive, though it may not be "on purpose", and she may even believe her own lies. I have a sister like this. She needs help. Being bipolar is very scary. Unless you really want to get involved in a turbulent roller coaster ride, I would RUN!!!
2006-11-14 08:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, run away and never call her again.
i know it feels like you should helpher and i knowit feels good. but you will be miserable for the rest of your life if you do, i have been in this situation (in fact i still am) just run
2006-11-14 08:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by benjamin b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you put yourself inthat situation??? why any one who says bad things about her kids and is not tru is crazy herslf.. she told you that... you need to cut it out asap!!! move on.. i dont thnk you are that desperate...be careful
2006-11-14 08:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by mmm..whynot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
run like the devil
2006-11-14 12:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋