Some say you only find true love once in your life. I believe you make a soul mate, the longer two people are together and work on their marriage the better soul mates you become. But what if you find another and then are torn between two people? Surely this is common out there. To be married, love your spouse but then stumble upon someone else. Then you wonder if this was meant to be your sould mate.
2006-11-14 00:42:26 · 7 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just as you said: "what if you find another" - to find someone you must have been looking!
Its dangerous when one croses the line- but sometimes you cross the line for a reason- it might not be clear now but think about it.
There is no such thing as a soul mate- its all about compatibilty, love thrown in together and a mixture of fate. its all a matter of who appears at the right place at the right time.- but now its more like who appears at the right place at the wrong time
you must know that the grass is always greener- this person that has the potential to come between your marriage could have been your current spouse. Its all because there is someone 'new 'outhere who isnt your spouse and thats bloody exciting... but not for long
this line made famous in the movie ALFIE makes all the sense in the world "for every fine woman you see in a club there is a guy out there who is sick of shagging her" and vice versa
2006-11-14 00:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by Colours 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are probably a lot of people that each of us could be happy with. That soul mate stuff is a fairy tale. There is always the "road not taken". I believe that no matter who I was with that I would occasionally wonder what it would be like to be with someone else. Maybe that's just human nature.
2006-11-14 01:01:58 · answer #2 · answered by Beth T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there are more than one soulmate in our lives but if we have already FOUND our soul mates, we have to take control of our feelings and NOT to fall for another. We can control our feelings and chose not to fall in love with another if we are stong in our hearts and mind. I personally believe that one should love your spouse and not fall for another even if you believe the other could be the ONE. You felt the same way about your spouse too, remember?
2006-11-14 00:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we can control who we fall in love with. True love...ahhh have yet to find it....you have to find someone with similar interests and goals and then work on the long term of things...
I have been with a couple men, but never found someone as attractive as that man I was with at the time...you really should not be looking for other partners when U are with someone, well unless you swing...lol
Now I prefer to be single...go solo...and if that man who turns my head comes around....I am single...lol
hope he is too!!
be well.....
2006-11-14 01:06:36 · answer #4 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i got here upon myself in the different area of the coin. the guy that i have been courting for 8 years, replaced into dishonest on me for over a 12 months and a 1/2. i'll't inform you the way a lot it hurts at the same time as one unearths out. that's dis-respectful, and hurtful. i determined to distance myself from him, notwithstanding the wear and tear replaced into finished. He nevertheless observed as me inquiring for sex, and infrequently i ought to provide in. Now i attempt to stay away from, and experience sorry for the different woman that would not comprehend. It makes me experience no longer so stupid anymore. that's tricky because I do love him, yet in case you'd be with 2 human beings, possibly you want to imagine about your moves really properly, because faster, or later the outcomes will fall on you. in case you adore your spouse a lot, possibly you are able to get counseling. that's no longer incorrect, or properly to love 2 human beings, notwithstanding that's not honest for you, or them. you should finally end up on my own, so i ought to guage the outcomes. possibly you'll detect a medium, and be unmarried and date who you want, yet at the same time as it contains twiddling with 2 human beings's emotions you'll loose on the top. reassess your moves in the previous both locate out. it really is all i'll inform you. if you're twiddling with 2 human beings it wouldn't have something to do with love. it really is definitely no longer actual love.
2016-10-16 08:54:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Offcourse. Its very easy. But it should just satisfy this simple condition that he must not be human, but something else. It is because god hasnt given that power to humans. Only that, we can control our feelings to some extent. This power varies with human to human. But no human has the full power.
2006-11-14 00:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Faheem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick with the first person. I mean you have known them longer and better than the second, right?
2006-11-14 00:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by chevygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋