Marriage & Divorce - 10 November 2006

When i ask about my husband looking at porn and how much it bothers me..people respond by saying..."at least he's not cheating on you" "at least this and that" so is porn an excuse for husbands not to cheat...meaning..if there was no porn men would cheat?...i have been married with my husband about 3months...he looks at porn and it bothers me...soo much to the point that i get depressed and angry...so should i be thankful that my husband looks at porn and doesn't go out and cheat on me?...what should i do to not feel so bad about myself and look at myself differently in the mirrow...?

2006-11-10 10:37:02 · 28 answers · asked by Ana R 1

Why is my wife so jealous of other women? She is pretty but calls other pretty women that dress atractivly "sluts" and "whores". I don't even flirt or talk to them, but she will change the tv channel if an attractive woman is on tv. What's wrong with her? I have always been faithful-respectful?

2006-11-10 10:35:13 · 13 answers · asked by al bundy 2

2006-11-10 10:31:33 · 12 answers · asked by who dat 2

I have recently found out that my husband was calling and emailing this korean girl he met while he was oversea for work. He claim that it was only for fun, but looking at the huge phone bills and the love letter emails, i doubted it. He promised not to do it again as he only loves me, can i trust him? I wanted to leave him if he loves her, but he denied... Please help me!

2006-11-10 10:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a husband falls out of love with his wife and only loves her, is it possible he can fall back in love in love with his wife?

2006-11-10 10:15:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok here it is long story short would you trust a man who cheated on his wife(said she drove him to it)then left wife for gf.cheated on gf(said it was none of her business and that he never told her he was just seeing her) with my sister.now he wants to marry my sister and i'm just afraid he will do the same things to her.he seems like a really great guy hard worker and a super dad.i do know his ex wife and she is a nasty thing.can a man who cheated twice change? this is my sisters 1st real love and she thinks he is prince charming.

2006-11-10 10:13:45 · 20 answers · asked by chirryd05 1

ME AND MY HUSBAND HAVE SEX, ORAL,AND ALL THAT, EVERY DAY AND NIGHT, 2 OR 3 TIMES . BUT HE STILL WANTS MORE MORE MORE. WE HAVE TRIED ALMOST EVERYTHING YOU CAN DO AND STILL ... I FEEL LIKE I AM NOT GOOD ENOUGH???

2006-11-10 10:12:16 · 10 answers · asked by junebaby 2

With all the divorces and cheating going on these days, it makes me wonder how hard staying faithful to your spouse really is. It SHOULDNT be hard, but apparently for some folks it's sadly a challenge. What is it that makes staying faithful to the one person you promised all your love to so HARD?

2006-11-10 10:05:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

next boyfriend before marriage? Since she is now "tainted" is premarital sex such a big deal?

2006-11-10 10:04:18 · 16 answers · asked by Laughing Libra 6

had suspitions before------now i know

2006-11-10 09:57:17 · 39 answers · asked by mcspic63 4

I admit that i have looked in the history and have been a little snoopy but i hate that he denies it..and i ask him if he wants to look with me and says no because i'm uncomfortable with it, i admit i am uncomfortable with it but i want us to share our likes and dislikes who knows maybe i might like it too..perhaps its my fault cuz i have confronted him about the situation and how horrible it makes me feel..so then he tells me he's not going to do it anymore but he continues to when i'm not around..is it normal that i feel this way?..should i just let it go?..or keep comfronting him?

2006-11-10 09:46:35 · 37 answers · asked by Ana R 1

2006-11-10 09:46:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

women, why is it that if a woman asks her man for a little more tenderness in bed and he does not give it he is a dawg, but if a man asks his woman for the same and she does not give it, she says things llike u are not willing to take what im willing to give. situation. i asked my g/g for more kissing, touching, fondling and such before sex and that is what she said.

2006-11-10 09:40:28 · 12 answers · asked by keithy 3

ok my friend was having sex w/ her so called boyfriend and get this she is married but neither one knew about each other. one day her husband walked in on them and they both freaked out now she does even know why they are mad at her and {yes she is dumb as a post.} what can i say to her w/o being mean to her cause in my opinion she's an idiot.

2006-11-10 09:37:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

They were just friends, then she hardly knew him....of course, she clams up totally and blames me when I ask anything. The emails I saw accidentally were very odd for someone that barely knows each other...Like "r u ok" and, conflict of interest :)~ amoung many others....your thoughts????

2006-11-10 09:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by idwill 1

2006-11-10 09:30:39 · 51 answers · asked by missamerican_pie007 2

did he make me and my ex get in a fight after not seeing each other for 2 years. did he make me talk to his ex

2006-11-10 09:30:31 · 16 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1

got involved with a marriaged man for 2 years. he promised to work it out and tell his wife when the time is right. and then a year passed by he said his motherinlaw is dying he cannot leave. and then half a year later his daughter is going to take an important test and he cannot leave and now he just cannot leave and left me. i feel absolutely fooled and also because this is his 3 third affair. and he is more then 10 years older than me, supposedly more experienced. i just feel furious and am planning to revenge. my body suffers a lot and i am ill all the time during these two years too, which makes me even more furious and revengeful. but people keep telllming to just forgive. i simmple cannot.
could people who were once unfortunately in similar situation advice? i don't want to hurt innocent people but he is hurting them again and again and i just cannot forgive him like nothing has happened. he needs to be punished!

2006-11-10 09:29:02 · 16 answers · asked by noodles 1

Why is that?

2006-11-10 09:28:56 · 6 answers · asked by poetic_lala 5

As an agreement we try not to snoop in each other's stuff. But I opened up our downloading program to download some music and discovered quite a collection of porn he has been downloading. I know he looks at porn occasionally even though he thinks I don't. It bothered me a little but I didn't know how to say anything to him. It doesn't make me mad so much as hurts. To me it's like a slap in the face saying I'm bad in bed or he doesn't find me attractive. I don't want to dictate how to live his life or spend his free time but this discovery bothered me a whole lot more than I thought it would. I know I'm gonna get crap answers here, but I'm looking for non-critical honest answers on how best to bring this up to my husband. I don't believe he's gonna cheat on me, and I do admit my lack of experience in the bedroom (I was a virgin until him...he was definitely not a virgin and I knew that). How do I talk to him about this without sounding accusatory?

2006-11-10 09:26:23 · 16 answers · asked by bubb1e_gir1 5

if a couple have had sex numerous times before marriage and then the woman decides that the relationship should be based on love and not sex, is it fair then to the man for her not to give anything more than a duty screw. if you think its fair why, if u think its not fair why. please honest answers and nothing vulgar. also this is a mature couple no kids, no job problems of any sort

2006-11-10 09:17:30 · 17 answers · asked by keithy 3

Got involved 2.5 yrs ago (used to work together, she has since left job). Shortly after sex began, she fell bigtime and proclaims to this day that I am the 1 true love of her life. At the time, I was in a serious (albeit troubled) relationship myself, and altho I was cheating on my GF (almost fiancee), and we were on way out, I did not to allow myself to become emotionally involved with my married lover (Ladies; this IS possible). This did not sit well with my lover, who went a bit nuts trying to convince me that we should leave our respective situations and be together. After like 6 mos of that, my relationship at home finally fell apart, and 6 months after that, I opened up; eventually SHE became the 1 true love of MY life. At this point she has admitted: her marriage was a hugemistake; she wasted 10 yrs of her life; she never wanted kids w anyone but me. I will marry her 2morrow, and get her preggers the next day, yet she is AFRAID to leave! PS They haven't had sex in 9 MOS!!!

2006-11-10 09:01:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-10 08:56:00 · 16 answers · asked by commonsince76 3

have anyone on here share there wife and enjoy or dislike the experience share your experience with me
if u cant on here feel free to email me

now for anyone interested and curious about it
tell me what is it about the situation that makes you want to try it

thanks
cuz i did it during the summer and believe it was a fun experience and very erotic experience

2006-11-10 08:47:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been Married Six Years,and have been Sleeping with My Wifes Mother for 8 Years.I slept with her The day I met her for the first time.I am now 29 and she is 45 with a Gorgeous Figure.She is 5ft 9 with very thin long Legs,and she is 42D-32-38.I am seeing her almost daily.She has told me that she will never get a Boyfriend as along as I carry on satisfying her.She has also told me she enjoys deceiveing her Daughter,and it really Turns her On,her Daughter not knowing.We have been to Paris for a dirty weekend earlier this Year.I do love my Wife,but am much happier sleeping with her Mother also.

2006-11-10 08:47:38 · 19 answers · asked by BAKKUS 2

She is very protective of what goes on inside her marriage with my son. I found a Zoloft pill she left behind in my guest bedroom and she became very irate and accused me of nosing in her business when I questioned my son. She seems to be pushing me out of my sons life and my husband and I are never to ask questions or give advice. She seems to only get along with males. She seems to be very controlling and wants to be wife, friend and mother to my son. She has accused my son of not growing in their marriage. He does everything, but cook. Has a job he loves . . . 31 years old, making 70K. She seems to be shaming him into giving up his fun time things. They have been married 2 years and together 2-1/2. She wants to finish school but can't seem to get started. She is a personal trainer. So far she has wanted to be writer for a sports magazine, counsel children at church, CSI Investigator, Psychologist. When around my family she has headaches or falls asleep after dinner.

2006-11-10 08:44:29 · 7 answers · asked by DIANE B 1

Please leave aside all religious arguments and tell me why, legally, you believe that marriage should only be between one man and one woman? Why not two men or two women or two women and one man? Why must it be so specifically one of each?

2006-11-10 08:43:45 · 21 answers · asked by Phaylynn 5

Our first four years of marriage were good. My husband then became a partner at an accounting firm. He then began to work long hours and on weekends. We stopped going out. I began to go out with female friends rather than mope around the house. I began to drink a lot at night after everyone was in bed. My husband moved out about 7 months ago, saying that it was because of my drinking.
Two weeks after he left, accepting the full responsibility for my issue and addressing it, I started counseling and AA, I have not had a drink since other than near beer. Meanwhile, he became involved with a woman we both know and some other woman that he met somewhere. They split up about a month ago. He wants us to try to get back together. He says that he still loves me and the kids and wants to try to be a family again, including counseling. Your thoughts?

2006-11-10 08:40:30 · 16 answers · asked by terry g 1

and if it is possible how many tiems can a human do it?

2006-11-10 08:35:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

have you done a Britney??

2006-11-10 08:29:41 · 16 answers · asked by Wisdom 4