Marriage & Divorce - 10 November 2006

My huby would not answer his phone when he is with me. He would turn doen his phone as soon as he comes home, and he would make all his calls when he is out alone. Is it ok that your husband be talking to his friend ( a buddy), a girl friend, that he has known for more than 15 years. But he would call her only when he is alone. he would tell me that he spoke with her once in a while, but apparently he calls her almost every day. sometimes as soon as he weaks up. is this normale for a husband to have a secret phone calls from her, and it seems that they talk only when i am at work. do i have the right to spy and start checking his phone record. tell me what do u think?

2006-11-10 13:12:47 · 16 answers · asked by lou b 1

Ex is acting crazy!!!?
Help! My ex plays games with visitation like no call no show, visiting abt one time monthly and then calls making demands and posturing like i am keeping him from his kids. He emailed and told me he would not be here tonight but would be by tomorrow at 8. i replied that we will be at church at 8pm, and he can either come after we get home - 9pm, or sunday am. he called abt 6am yelling at me. I told him that if he can not be polite i would hang up on him and did. later he called back and left a msg that he expected me not to be home for visit time - 6pm, and that he was bringing "a police escort" to have me arrested for interferance with his "rights!" this man is nuts! I will be back at the lawyer soon, but any advice? I can not afford this!

2006-11-10 13:10:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was the first to leave based on a mutual decision. In this time, we did every thing married couples do including the intimacy. He moved to a different city quite a distance from me, but we met every chance we got which was quite often. He asked me to move there. I said no because I was not sure of the surroundings. I did decide to go, but now he says that he's not sure if he loves me. He has admitted to sleeping with someone else, and says that he does not want me anymore. does anyone think that that is his true feelings or is he just fascinated with the idea of something new? We have a child together, and he has not made an attempt to visit in awhile. At first, he said he did not want a divorce, but now I don't know. He hasn't talked to me in about a week. He was kinda mean to me the last time we talked in a way he has never been. Is that the other woman talking for him or what? Is it guilt because he got caught or is it really over?

2006-11-10 13:07:04 · 9 answers · asked by sp376 1

3 years ago I tried to divorce my wife. She asked me to come back and because of my Christian beliefes I felt obligated to do so. God has now had an additional 3 years to heal our marraige and he has not. I moved out 4 months ago, filed for the divorce and it's almost final. I've met a wonderful Christian women, we dated for 7 weeks and I've fallen in love with her. Now she wants to break it off because of her convictions about dating a man that is technically still married. I respect that and we have broken it off for now. But now my ex-wife to be is pulling the "lets work it out" thing on me again. If I were to go back, I would have to live the rest of my life in love with this other women and yet be married to a women who, right now I do not love. I believe God can work miracles. But I don't want one in this case. Should I want a miracle? Should I go back and try yet once again to make somehting work with my wife?

2006-11-10 13:06:02 · 9 answers · asked by Mark B 1

2006-11-10 13:03:15 · 10 answers · asked by COOKIE 1

I dont wanna get her something that I know she could use, I wanna know whats traditional for one year of marraige.

2006-11-10 12:54:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-10 12:49:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife thinks it is cute to breastfeed baby tigers by sitting indian style and putting a pillow on her lap and then having the baby tigers hop on the pillow and suck on her nipples. My problem is that as they grow older these guys might think she is their real mom or they could get violent and bite her nipple off or something. Well, okay the big reason is I'm jealous and I think it borders on bestiality but I'm not sure. Well plus her breast milk isn't as sweet as most women's so it might be bad for those little guys...what do you think?

2006-11-10 12:47:40 · 20 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2

Say your married for twenty years and your husband gets a chance to have sex with a playboy model. could you give your husband a one time pass for payback of years of good service?

2006-11-10 12:44:16 · 14 answers · asked by steven d 3

i need to get this started but i don't know where to start. does this have to go before a judge or can we just file paperwork and pay the fees?

2006-11-10 12:42:43 · 10 answers · asked by Ryan80 1

My husband and I are seperated with definant intent of divorce and I've been seeing someone whom I really have feelings for, however my husband is getting close to someone now and it's bothering me, like REALLY bothering me, is this normal at first? Will I get over this or does it mean it's not over for me yet? Please help if you've been through this.

2006-11-10 12:40:43 · 29 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2

I want to write to my ex husband for the holidays. I want to keep it upbeat, not begging, accusation or blaming. I'm still forgiving, in love with him. He has custody of our 3 yr. old son. We had tons of things happen that we did not address properly.
I'm hoping I can say something so he will see me in a new light. I know he is angry at me. He made the decision to divorce. It is he did not take the time to support me or understand while I was ill.

It is difficult for me to be creative with these words cuz I'm emotional about him. Some say don't want/love someone that treats you horrible, cruel, mean with lies. He was never that way to me.

Everytime I try to formulate sentences or questions, it comes across blah.
I wish we could-
All we needed to do-
You did not even try to-
Please see/try to understand that-
If you could only have given me time-
I want you to see the changes in me-

Can anyone think of better ways for me to express my desires?
Thank you-not a joke.

2006-11-10 12:40:41 · 16 answers · asked by strong1 3

or both?

2006-11-10 12:38:23 · 43 answers · asked by DOLLY O 1

Could you watch another man hose your wife?

2006-11-10 12:34:19 · 14 answers · asked by Back the Mack 1

hi my name is stephanie and i have a secret i want to tell my mom but i don't know if i should it is a big but my mom sad i can trust her so what do you think i should do

2006-11-10 12:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you do to pass the time after the kids are taken care of and the chores are done?

2006-11-10 12:21:16 · 8 answers · asked by Jules 3

My boyfriend and I got married in the court house, so right now I have my marriage certificate, but we never signed the marriage certificate or got it notarize, but our names show up on a website my friend gave me, with our marriage license number. Does that mean we are Legally married? Or we are legally married if we have both sign the marriage certificate and got it notarize to get the marriage license?

2006-11-10 12:21:14 · 16 answers · asked by star200252 2

2006-11-10 12:15:08 · 19 answers · asked by jess b 1

2006-11-10 12:04:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-10 12:00:07 · 4 answers · asked by genavive 2

i was paying child support thru the registry then they upped it and took it out of my paycheck without a court order .

My ex says she isnt aware of whats going on and denys any and all knowldge regarding this action

is it possible for a child support order to from paying a regestry to taking it out of your paycheck without a court order

is my ex telling me the truth that she had nothing to do with it

2006-11-10 11:58:37 · 5 answers · asked by bolounit1 2

My mother died 3 years ago. My father is remarrying a much younger woman. ( who has two young kids) Do we the grown children have any rights or standing to make decisions about his burial, estate or affairs. or will the new wife have full authority in these matters ( we live in Texas)

2006-11-10 11:46:26 · 20 answers · asked by perez6plus1 2

I WANT MY RINGS. She left 5 1/2 months ago (we are currently separated) and left her rings in the house...and recently requested her rings. It seems odd that she would even bother asking them since she was the one that wanted to run away from our relationship.

2006-11-10 11:31:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

He started working 7 days a week more than 12 hours a day. I have some friends, but most of them have work to do with school or have a busy family life. I have no children. I have organized the house, done all the cleaning. What can I do to keep from being so bored without spending too much money?

2006-11-10 11:26:15 · 18 answers · asked by Virginia Gal 3

My wife and I have been married for about a year now. At first everything was great, but now it's getting really crappy. First, she puts her friends before always. Then, she acts as if whatever she is doing is justified and that I'm just jealous that she has friends. She is on the phone with her friends for like 4 hours at a time and then wonders why I don't talk to her much. She goes behind my back often. Whenever I tell her something, she will run and tell her friends. Then she has this gay friend that is flamboyant. I don't really agree with the lifestyle, and she gets pissed because I don't want to hang out with the guy. Everything seems to have to be catered to her no matter what. I have to drop whatever to do things with her, but it's not mutual. Having sex has pretty much been repetitive for about 5 months. We only can do it in one position. Which really sucks, so it seems like a chore almost. I love her and I don't want to leave, but I don't know what to do. I'm so lost......

2006-11-10 11:25:44 · 11 answers · asked by Mike 2

To make a long story short i have done everything to keep my neighbor from naggin such as keeping my yard clean my grass green my animals inside and yet he still finds something to say about us he has even called the cops or some humane socciety on us saying our gutters are dirty and our yard looks like crap. Taking him to court is the furtherst thing on my mind its to much of a hassle to deal with. I have tried to talk to him but he still claims that we are on welfare and he is going to do anything possible to get us evicted from our house that we have lived in for 6 years and he cant cause we own it and it cant be racist cause he is the same background as us but why do old people always seem to make the younger ones life a miserable hell ? we now ignore him but why does he still point and stuff there cant be to much wrong with us my husband works for a great company my brother is in school and i am a homemaker and yet nothing i do is perfect. why us ?

2006-11-10 11:00:07 · 5 answers · asked by mommyandbaby 4

I was involved in a difficult marriage, filled with confusion, lies, threats, financial, emotional, verbal.....and THREATS of physical abuse. It used to be wonderful at one time.

There isn't enough space to tell every detail BUT I'll just say this, aggressive, rude domineering mother, meddling siblings, suspected infidelity with ex's. STALKER ex's. Financial mismanagement, while he was UNEMPLOYED and I worked TWO jobs, crime spree.....and him being sentenced to three years.
I paid for the lawyer, paid off some of the stores robbed, put money on his books, and endured TONS of verbal/emotional abuse through mail.
Well, met someone new, got along REALLY well, filed for divorce. Got to know this other someone, fell in love and am treated like a queen.
Now three years later he's home, and he DOES seem different, more mature.....like he finally GETS it now. He knows I'm involved but wants me back. I think I want him too. (The boyfriend knows) I also want the boyfriend, and love him.

2006-11-10 10:58:11 · 22 answers · asked by lilac b 3

2006-11-10 10:41:40 · 9 answers · asked by ali m 1

Are you feeling grateful for your spouse lately? If not, then find atleast three things that you truly admire about him/her. If you change then they will too!

2006-11-10 10:41:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-10 10:39:31 · 11 answers · asked by sueann_quintana 1